I agree with you OP. The NHS is a joke and no one I know abroad or who comes from abroad and lives in the U.K. would call it the envy of the world. It probably was when it was created but it definitely isn’t anymore.
My relatives in France cannot believe it when I say we still have wards (so medieval). It’s all private rooms in France, including after giving birth. I described how noisy the ward was, having to use a common toilet when peeing after an episiotomy hurt so much, etc. They were shocked.
Also in France everyone sees a paediatrician for their baby, whenever they want to, not just if your baby has issues and you get referred by your GP (which can take ages). Issues such as reflux or allergies are diagnosed much more quickly.
You don’t wait months for surgery.
Every woman sees a gynaecologist, not just the GP.
After giving birth, virtually all women have 10 pelvic floor sessions with a women’s health physio. No one accepts that it’s normal to pee when you sneeze/jump/laugh after giving birth. They are shocked to hear women don’t do anything/don’t know they can do anything about it here.
Pharmacists are amazing and so knowledgable.
GP appointments aren’t limited to 10 mins and to discuss one issue only. I took my DS once when he had an ear infection, and also did it in England for the same issue. In England it was ‘check temp, check ear, yes it’s an ear infection, here is your prescription for antibiotics, bye’. In France they checked his history, weighed him, checked other things, had a chat about his general health, prescribed antibiotics, gave me tips, etc.
There’s much more comfort (not just the private rooms). For instance, before babies’ jabs, they put a local anaesthetic patch on their skin to make it less painful.
All this is funded through tax (albeit much higher than in the U.K.) and private insurance. However, it is free for very low earners. And private insurance isn’t as expensive as here as everyone (apart from very low earners) has to have one.
Private insurance is so much better than private insurance here. It can cover glasses, contact lenses, laser eye surgery (!!), acupuncture, osteopathy (and other forms of alternative treatment), dermatology, all dental care, etc.
Don’t get me wrong, I live here and find the NHS okay for my needs most of the time, but I do have private healthcare through work and have used to not wait months for surgery. I appreciate how hard doctors and nurses work, and I clapped for them during lockdown, but this is not the issue as the system is flawed and they can’t help it.