@Nicknacky
hear Which reminds me of when Sophie Khan said that when a person is running at police with a knife they should talk to them, ask them why they had it and what they were going to do, rather than taser them
People do actually have these views and it's bloody scary!
When ds was 11 he was being bullied in school by another pupil in his year. Twice the child pinned ds up against the wall and both times having not released ds when he tried he responded by kicking the child hard in the shins.
Both times ds was suspended alongside the other child for using violence.
One day this child pulled a knife from their pocket and held it towards ds. Da grabbed his wrist and then pushed him away hard with other hand because he wanted to get away and didn't want other child to be able to immediately chase him.
I involved police. School tried very hard to minimise it and state child said he carried knife as he was scared of ds and also it was only a cutlery knife so da didn't need to respond how he did and can't believe mum called police etc.
I told police they had indeed been altercations before and I'd had meeting 2 weeks previously about it. I said they could see all incident reports etc.
Police saw them. Then gave the school what for as absolutely no evidence anywhere my ds has ever done anything wrong or was a threat and he was absolutely entitled to respond to the immediate threat without waiting to see if a) child would stab him and b) of the knife was in Fact a dangerous weapon or not.
Anyway long story short my ds was traumatised and despite what police said school still insisted he had no reason to be anxious. He had to move schools and have 6 months of specialist CBT through Camhs (he's autistic).