But why should a black mother have to think twice about deadly consequences to her and her family of giving her DS a BB gun, while a white mother wouldn't need to take into account any consideration apart from the safety of local squirrels?
EVERY parent should think twice about giving a child a gun.
It is a WEAPON!
Even in play, a BB gun, or an air gun can blind another person or cause serious injury.
Your child might be in your garden shooting at a target on your fence - what if the shot misses, and hits someone on the other side.
If your child it genuinely interested in weapons, enrol them in a gun club. Keep their gun locked up (preferably at the club) when not being used for their interest. Guns are dangerous.
Some years ago, a teenage boy accidentally shot and killed his little sister very close to where I live. He was babysitting. His friend came round and they removed the father's gun from its locked cabinet. The gun was loaded (it shouldn't have been) but broken. The boy unbroke it, squeezed the trigger to show his friend - and it went off, killings sister (who was about 9, I think). It was dreadful for that family. They lost a child. And how the boy or his father can ever come to terms with their own part in that, I don't know.
It is too easy to have an accident with gun, no matter how careful you think you are being.