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To think it's disgusting to stick your tongue out in photos

129 replies

user8558 · 21/07/2020 09:34

I probably am being unreasonable.

But I think it's revolting when you see photos of people with their tongues sticking out.

Why do people do this?

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underneaththeash · 21/07/2020 10:30

I don't think it's disgusting, just childish, tedious and obviously ruins photos.

MillieChant · 21/07/2020 10:37

@Hardlyworking

It is fucking rank. Also a complete tell of chavvy losers when trawling dating sites.
Much like calling someone a 'chavvy loser' is a definite tell as well.
MintyMabel · 21/07/2020 10:37

It’s standard practice here. Always in fun, never directed at someone. If you don’t like it, don’t do it.

It tells me all I need to know about the person on the end of the tongue, mainly that I don't want to know them

The feeling is definitely mutual there. I will do it more if it makes keeping uptight, judgmental idiots out of my life,

Andthewinnerislucky · 21/07/2020 10:43

Just to show what I mean.

First two - Nope.
Last (Meghan's) - cute and funny unless done all the time, then I may advise you to leave it for the kids.

To think it's disgusting to stick your tongue out in photos
Gwenhwyfar · 21/07/2020 10:43

"Yes, it's not an anus or a penis, obviously. But it's probably next to these things if you had to list parts of the human body you don't want to look at."

I think that's probably personal. I'd put feet next.

ArthurBloom · 21/07/2020 10:53

I stick mine in plenty worse places than the air!

SleepingStandingUp · 21/07/2020 10:53

@Andthewinnerislucky

Just to show what I mean.

First two - Nope.
Last (Meghan's) - cute and funny unless done all the time, then I may advise you to leave it for the kids.

Rude Dirty Cheeky

Guess it depends who you want to swipe right...

TooGood2BeTrue · 21/07/2020 10:53

Completely agree with you OP. My SIL does this in every single photo and she is 40 this year!

Andthewinnerislucky · 21/07/2020 10:54

@SleepingStandingUp Spot on!

FoodAllTheFood · 21/07/2020 10:57

I think your being a bit precious... Disgusting? Revolting? Do you live a fairly sheltered life OP? It's a tongue for Christ's sake.

Childish and annoying perhaps but I certainly wouldn't list it next to anuses and penises in things I'd rather not see on a photo.

FEET ON THE OTHER HAND 🤢

FoodAllTheFood · 21/07/2020 10:57

You're

covilha · 21/07/2020 10:58

I agree- no need for adults to behave like this

zingally · 21/07/2020 11:01

It's definately NOT cute once someone is passed about the age of 7.

But saying that, I have a photo of two very dear friends, taken when we were 18 and drunk, mooning their arses at the camera outside a Wetherspoons!

Would we do that now? NO.

Did we think we were the funniest things ever then? YES.

KatherineJaneway · 21/07/2020 11:04

I was taught as a kid it was really rude to stick your tongue out, like an insult.

The80sweregreat · 21/07/2020 11:06

I hate it too and people that tend to ' gurn' in photos or pull silly faces!
It's just a pet hate of mine although it's not hurting anyone! It looks disrespectful (which I know is a bit OTT! )

Andthewinnerislucky · 21/07/2020 11:07

Mooning arses - drunk or not isn't and will never be cute, not even on a 5year old.

Getting drunk to the point of mooning arses is on a whole other level of not cute - 18 or 30.

Hardly comparable to sticking a bit of tongue out.

HowFastIsTooFast · 21/07/2020 11:08

@Thepilotlightsgoneout

I sometimes do it because I have terrible wonky teeth and look awful smiling in photos.
Exactly the same as this! I hate that my front teeth overlap and sticking the tip of my tongue out in silly photos hides it! Obviously I don't do it when the picture is intended to be a 'nice' one.
YgritteSnow · 21/07/2020 11:09

Yes it is. Makes me feel sick when I see it. It's ill manners to do it publicly anyway, why do we need so many permanent records of people doing it?

damnthatanxiety · 21/07/2020 11:10

@Soubriquet

Urm....yabu.

It’s a tongue not a penis

Grin
Thingsthatgo · 21/07/2020 11:10

I’d rather see a tongue than duckface!

SallyWD · 21/07/2020 11:12

I don't like it and would never do it but I don't think it's disgusting.

TinyTear · 21/07/2020 11:13

I agree, i hate tongues like that, even the rolling stones tongue icon makes me shiver

same with disimbodied lips and mouths hate hate hate them

Eyesofdisarray · 21/07/2020 11:14

It's a bit 'yuk'.
But not as 'yuk' as when there's food in that same mouth

Redglitter · 21/07/2020 11:16

No more annoying than the bloody peace signs you see people do

Oh i hate that. I've got a friend who seems to think no photo is complete without it. Looks ridiculous

Sparklesocks · 21/07/2020 11:17

It doesn't really bother me, I think it can ruin a lovely picture if everyone else is smiling but I don't really have strong feelings.