Have a selection of people on my social media who insist on checking in when they end up in hospital. They don't say anything or if they do it's literally an emoji and then they get floods of oh no what's happened or hope all is ok etc. They reply with DM me. Then a couple of hours later there will be another post about how thankful they are to everyone that DM's them and can see who cares about them etc.
Why oh why insist on posting publicly that you are in hospital but then ask everyone to DM you. Is it just attention seeking!
YABU - there is nothing wrong with this
YANBU - it is ridiculously silly and annoying