No.
One has Mental health problems and has used that to bully us for years, picking us off one by one.
My brother I get on with, but he pisses me off because he never made the effort to make sure our DC built up a relationship and was an absolute pushover to his ex wife. When she buggered off with some bloke she met on tinder he expected all the support in the world. And tbh we'd built our own lives which he didn't factor into by that point.
One's vulnerable so I'll always feel a sense of responsibility. She'll probably end up homeless at some point as she's shit with paperwork. I've made it very clear that if she messes up again and her and her dd end up homeless I won't be taking them in (( but let's face it, I would )) she's meant to be getting some help with paperwork etc as she's been flagged as a vulnerable adult.
We're all pretty fractured. I try not to get involved in any drama, I know I'm seen as a bit of a selfish, hardfaced cow but the reality is I don't want to shoulder anyone elses bullshit other than my own. As a result I'm very low contact..........which is sad and lonely at times but it is what it is. Self preservation comes first.