So we already have 2 daughters who currently share a room 2 and 4 and I have a teenage son who has his own room (3 bed house) so we really don't have the space, plus we only have a small car and a relatively small lounge with a corner unit that just seats us all nicely, we also have a small dining table that really only seats 4 and an extra chair at a squeeze.
Dh would like a son of his own and has been begging and pleading with me but I don't want to, I have just got my body back to pre pregnancy after nearly 3 years.
I have told him how I feel but he gets upset and says he wants to try one last time for a boy as it means so much to him.
I just feel I'm done with having children and want to focus on the ones I've got, I'm also a SAHM so I would be the one looking after them and of course it could be another girl which I wouldn't mind but dh would be disappointed.
I know having another baby is the wrong choice for me and the only reason to is because he wants to so much and I am guilt ridden.
He seems to think we would manage, move, he'd work more hours and get a bigger car and every time I say no he gets so down and says it's his only chance to have a son and at 36 it is for me.
I just feel like if I don't he'll resent me forever and I will have to live with the guilt/regret.
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berryford · 09/07/2020 10:57
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