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To report the twisted owner of this car to the police

137 replies

Fxckingpain · 08/07/2020 16:39

I know who the owner is because he commented on the photo after it was uploaded to Facebook. He tried to defend himself by saying he's just "having a laugh" but he has no intention of removing the sticker.

Incase the photo doesn't load: this idiot has had a decal made for his car that says 'rape bus'

To report the twisted owner of this car to the police
OP posts:
Buster72 · 08/07/2020 17:47

Report it, with as much detail as you can..

As pp said sec 5 public order act.

Insist police take it seriously....it's an easy win anyway...

namechangetheworld · 08/07/2020 17:49

I agree that it's revolting but the police won't give a shit. Don't waste their (or your) time.

Rosebel · 08/07/2020 17:51

That is sick but will/can the police do anything? I'm not sure its illegal to have a bumper sticker (even a sick one) on your car. I might be tempted to report it just incase they can.
Can't imagine how horrendous you'd feel if you saw that and had been raped (not by him).

Livelovebehappy · 08/07/2020 17:51

Why wouldn’t this be classed as a hate crime? Rape is illegal, and so for someone to put this in his car, whether serious or not, it should be treated as a crime imo.

D4rwin · 08/07/2020 17:53

I'm fairly respectful of others stuff and they're right to an opinion. But I would just stick a brick through that.

Gin4thewin · 08/07/2020 17:54

Id say that falls under public order, section 5. "displays any writing, sign or other visible representation which is threatening, within the hearing or sight of a person likely to be caused harassment, alarm or distress thereby."

GhostCurry · 08/07/2020 17:56

Brick with a note tied round it, left on the bonnet. “Remove the sticker, or next time, the brick will be inside your car.”

patas · 08/07/2020 18:00

@GhostCurry

Brick with a note tied round it, left on the bonnet. “Remove the sticker, or next time, the brick will be inside your car.”
Excellent!
ShebaShimmyShake · 08/07/2020 18:01

You could put a very sticky sticker over the wing mirrors. Bastard to get off.

Laaalaaaa · 08/07/2020 18:01

I’m pretty sure the police will have already seen it. If he’s out driving about in it regularly it’s highly unlikely he won’t have been driving in front of them at some point.

EveryPlanetHasAYorkshire · 08/07/2020 18:04

Yes report it.

The police probably won't do anything because women aren't viewed as people but no harm in trying.

Herja · 08/07/2020 18:06

Personally, I'd solve it by spray painting the shit out of his car, in an area with no CCTV and a hood up. I appreciate that this is not the right thing to do though. I would absolutely do it though and without a moment's guilt.

You can't commit a hate crime against the characteristic 'sex' afaik, so this is completely legal, just vile.

stillathing · 08/07/2020 18:10

Definitely report. If we are to have hate crime legislation, it is ridiculous that misogyny is not a category. Unfortunately misogyny is woven so deeply into the fabric of our society that we expect it. I mean, he's hardly going to get in trouble for a sticker when the actual crime it references is so poorly prosecuted as to be virtually legal.

fascinated · 08/07/2020 18:10

Maybe if people started making more of a fuss abbot this kind of thing the police might get more interested. At least with this we can do sth about it in relative safety and with ease - more difficult when confronted with attitudes like this in person

Wecandothis99 · 08/07/2020 18:21

Vile. But saying the town is full of people like that is a bit cruel! Stick to the problem not bashing an entire town!

FrippEnos · 08/07/2020 18:22

Soubriquet
Ah Grimsby.

Home of the stupid and dumb.

Way to generalise about a whole community.

QuestionableMouse · 08/07/2020 18:23

I saw the police make an idiot remove a sticker with the word fuck in it from their car.

Report.

FrippEnos · 08/07/2020 18:24

Fxckingpain

Report, you don't know the police might do something.

unlikelytobe · 08/07/2020 18:25

Remember when people used to graffiti some witty retort or amend the words on a billboard to change the message? Perhaps one of Grimsby's good citizens would like to think about how that might apply to this situation. Not that I'm advocating anything criminal of course....

mbosnz · 08/07/2020 18:26

I wonder how he'd like his sticker individualised - say by spraying RAPIST in big red letters on the front, back and sides of his car. . .just jokes mate. Just a bit of banter, innit?

AnyFucker · 08/07/2020 18:29

A key along the side of that car will sort it right out

zippyswife · 08/07/2020 18:31

Yes it could be a decent 4 public order act? Police will stick a report on for it. I would imagine if you have registration number police would be going to have a chat at least. Reports go on for a lot less than that.

He is intentionally offensive. What a vile cunt.

TARSCOUT · 08/07/2020 18:34

Ah Grimsby. Home of the stupid and dumb.
Because you lot threatening violence and vehicle damage are any better? As soon as you start with that you lose any semblance of a reasoned argument.

EveryPlanetHasAYorkshire · 08/07/2020 18:38

@TARSCOUT

Ah Grimsby. Home of the stupid and dumb. Because you lot threatening violence and vehicle damage are any better? As soon as you start with that you lose any semblance of a reasoned argument.
Grin
ThisShitDontMatter · 08/07/2020 18:43

It would be a crime if it insulted black people or trans so yes it should be taken serious. It isnt funny what so ever... and Id question people who thinks thats funny... yuch. Sounds like he canny get a shag cos hes repulsive.