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I just accidentally created a group on Messenger with my two ex-boyfriends,panicked and left the group

366 replies

blanche85 · 08/07/2020 11:51

O. M. G.

Please help me to feel better.

I HATE Facebook! I haven't actively used Facebook for years,but have the Messenger App as I sometimes get the odd message...

Anyway,for some reason,I decided to open the Messenger App and clicked on a conversation from my ex. We haven't spoken for about two years. Then,somehow I managed to accidentally send a thumbs up! I then panicked and then somehow changed the conversation colour?!!! Which came up as 'blanche has changed the conversation colour' and I was then like 'ABORT! ABORT! ABORT!' and then....god knows how....I managed to create a group with him and my other ex!

Oh the shame. I immediately left the group,but now,as I've left it...i seemingly can't get back in to delete it? So they're know in this sad little group together? Wondering why on earth I've suddenly randomly created this group and then left it!

Bloody hell

OP posts:
Elvesdontdomagic · 08/07/2020 15:56

This is so funny!

However, why are you so embarrassed? Do you honestly think they'll even care?!!

ShaunaTheSheep · 08/07/2020 15:56

OP I feel your pain.

I hardly use messenger, but managed, when an overseas friend messaged to say a family member had passed away I somehow sent the giant thumbs up. Mortified doesn’t even begin to cover it. Blush

Hollywolly1 · 08/07/2020 16:02

This is just so so so funny,sorry but thanks for the laughFlowersCakeWineBearfor comfort

Stripeytopgirl · 08/07/2020 16:09

Do you have children? Blame the children. I got a FaceTime from an ex a few months ago that ended within seconds of it starting. I strongly suspect it was his young daughter 😂

Worstemailever · 08/07/2020 16:13

Could you pretend that your phone was accidentally activated in the back pocket of your jeans, when your new Argentinan lover swooped you up and placed you passionately on your bed?

Bobblepop · 08/07/2020 16:15

Hahaha!! Oh dear!!!

user1481840227 · 08/07/2020 16:21

Oh god I hate that really dramatic thumbs up that keeps getting bigger and bigger as you frantically try to cancel it.

But your post made me giggle OP. You poor thing. I can only imagine the panic!!

Cloudfrost · 08/07/2020 16:25

I had a massive laugh at this at first, then I thought oh shit the one u added to the conversation will be able to read everything that was said before he was added, I am hoping for your sake the conversation was in a language that the second guy can't understand lol

Glitteryone · 08/07/2020 16:29

Hilarious. I have no idea how you could do that by accident 🤣🤣

MrsToothyBitch · 08/07/2020 16:31

Oh OP! Messenger is designed solely to humiliate, I swear. It just waits to catch you out. That bastard thumbs up catches me out frequently & I'm also bad for sending the wrong messenger emojis to suit the message-'scowly instead of smiley and vice versa.

One of my friends was repeatedly in the firing line for accidental video calls & the like. The worst was when my phone unlocked somehow in the bottom of my bag and I ended up sending him ooodles of clock emojis, diamonds, hearts, spades & club emojis and robot emojis. By the time I realised, I had a load of missed calls & messages from him saying "please make the clocks stop!"

Also somehow my boobs ordered an uber last weekend when I accidentally rolled on a dropped phone. Mercifully we realised immediately & managed to cancel in time! Blush

Sneezyweasel · 08/07/2020 16:38

I NC for this as it’s really outing.

I managed to somehow send an email to my ex husbands newly-ex partner (they’d had an affair, we’d divorced, they stayed together for 7 years after but then they split up).

All it said was “LOL”.

I genuinely don’t know how it got sent, I think I boob-wrote it lying on the sofa with my phone next to me, and her name begins with the first letter of the alphabet.

I didn’t even know I’d send it until she sent me a really rude email 🤣😂🤣

Roussette · 08/07/2020 16:49

Sneezy, that's really funny actually and LOL sums it up doesn't it!

edwinbear · 08/07/2020 16:51

There should be more threads like this on MN.

That is all Grin

Marie543 · 08/07/2020 16:58

Oh my god that's hilarious!! I've had such a shit day and that's really cheered me up! Missing my friends atm and this is so something I'd do then we would annalise it for hours laughing 😂😂😂

FinlandFlag · 08/07/2020 17:01

All I've read is the OP and my doubled over laughing. That's hilarious. Sorry Grin

KetoWinnie · 08/07/2020 17:01

Ha ha that is so embarrassing!🎖
You poor thing.

FinlandFlag · 08/07/2020 17:02

@blanche85

It wasn't even a casual thumbs up either - it was fucking huge! Took up most of the screen!
Hahahahaha
Raella50 · 08/07/2020 17:02

Add lots more people to the group and send masses of random emojis

Raella50 · 08/07/2020 17:03

Then come back after an hour and apologise that your Facebook had malfunctioned and close it off

KetoWinnie · 08/07/2020 17:04

@OohKittens

I left facebook after I tagged myself in the school photo of the child of someone who I vaguely knew.
Oh i feel yr pain
justanotherneighinparadise · 08/07/2020 17:05

🤣🤣

Scratchyback · 08/07/2020 17:06

Sorry but this has given me a laugh on a boring Wednesday afternoon. Have you a third ex that you could blame it on? Say he dared you to do it? Press the nuclear button on it, as it were Grin

TheVanguardSix · 08/07/2020 17:06

Oh I've done worse.. stalked my ex on Facebook (drunk) only I didn't use the search bar. I used my status update. Woke up to see 'Bob Smith' in big letters on my timeline. Someone had actually liked it. This is one of many reasons I no longer drink alcohol.

Proper LOL!!! THIS and the OP's luxury size thumbs up still has me bellyaching, hours after my last post. Grin Grin Grin

FinlandFlag · 08/07/2020 17:10

Add them to a group with loads more people (who know about it) and pretend to start selling some mlm shit. That's what people seem to do to actually sell it so wont seem too mental

SauvignonBlanketyBlank · 08/07/2020 17:12

Can I join? I was idly looking at dh ex gf Facebook and liked a pic by accident..we aren't friends on fb.I quickly undid the like feeling ice cold with shame