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I just accidentally created a group on Messenger with my two ex-boyfriends,panicked and left the group

366 replies

blanche85 · 08/07/2020 11:51

O. M. G.

Please help me to feel better.

I HATE Facebook! I haven't actively used Facebook for years,but have the Messenger App as I sometimes get the odd message...

Anyway,for some reason,I decided to open the Messenger App and clicked on a conversation from my ex. We haven't spoken for about two years. Then,somehow I managed to accidentally send a thumbs up! I then panicked and then somehow changed the conversation colour?!!! Which came up as 'blanche has changed the conversation colour' and I was then like 'ABORT! ABORT! ABORT!' and then....god knows how....I managed to create a group with him and my other ex!

Oh the shame. I immediately left the group,but now,as I've left it...i seemingly can't get back in to delete it? So they're know in this sad little group together? Wondering why on earth I've suddenly randomly created this group and then left it!

Bloody hell

OP posts:
OohKittens · 08/07/2020 14:12

I left facebook after I tagged myself in the school photo of the child of someone who I vaguely knew.

Misskittyfantastico85 · 08/07/2020 14:12

Omg thank you for making me laugh. Even your updates are hilarious.

RibenaMonsoon · 08/07/2020 14:13

I added my exes wife once. She cropped up on people you may know and my 4 month old was trying to grab my phone. It sent her a friend request. Initially I think she thought I was stalking her but then we ended up having a really lovely chat.

Could you just say you were drunk and it was a dare? Someone dared you to add 2 of your exes to a messenger group.

Failing that blame children Grin

WhatAWonderfulDay · 08/07/2020 14:15

I am supposed to be working... sitting here literally in tears!! Grin Grin

FranCan · 08/07/2020 14:17

So they're know in this sad little group together?

I'm sorry I shouldn't laugh but this is pretty funny lol

ravenmum · 08/07/2020 14:34

Oh, I hope this is real. And that in two months' time, OP goes into a pub to see the two of them sitting having a pint together, having started up a great new friendship Grin

SchadenfreudePersonified · 08/07/2020 14:41

You've got to style this one out.

"You are probably wondering why I have invited you both to this meeting in the library, in the presence of DCI Knacker of the Yard, following the abduction of Romulus the budgie and the sinister letter containing two tail feathers and a leg ring received by The Secretary for Foreign Affairs . . . "

Nah - just block them.

CarbsafterMarbs · 08/07/2020 14:48

🤣🤣 Sorry OP but this is hilarious.

KensalGreen · 08/07/2020 15:00
Grin

When I was still at school I accidentally sent one of my teachers a friend request. I was mortified!

My friend’s Facebook page also once sent her boss a request for his address?! She had no idea till he asked her what was going on 😬

blanche85 · 08/07/2020 15:00

@ravenmum

Oh, I hope this is real. And that in two months' time, OP goes into a pub to see the two of them sitting having a pint together, having started up a great new friendship Grin
They live in different countries so thankfully no chance of this!

Which has also made me realise that one of them speaks English and one of them German (very little English) so if they have struck up a conversation,there may (perhaps to my advantage) be some language barriers

OP posts:
Evelefteden · 08/07/2020 15:02

Brilliant!! 😂😂😂

andthentherewasme · 08/07/2020 15:08

This is the best thing I've read for a long time. I did the laugh where your whole body wobbles and got a stomach cramp. I'm sorry this happened to you, it sounds mortifying, but you have helped a lot of us release some feel-good endorphins - so, thank you!

Rockdown2020 · 08/07/2020 15:09

@OohKittens you literally made my day. Hilarious!!!

GinDrinker00 · 08/07/2020 15:13

Funny but not very believable. 😂

Timmyscrumpets · 08/07/2020 15:18

Do you have children blame it on them I always do when I do something stupid on social media 😂😂😂

RedRec · 08/07/2020 15:19

This has made me laugh more than anything, ever, on Mumsnet GrinGrinGrin

PornStarOvaltini · 08/07/2020 15:21

Thank you OP! That made me laugh so hard. 😂

Yeahnahmum · 08/07/2020 15:21

Hahaha this is so funny. I am sorry op 😂

IndigoSkye · 08/07/2020 15:21

This has cheered me up OP!! I did something similar, although not as bad, I was reading messages and nodding off and accidentally gave a thumbs up and then changed the colour when I tried to remove it! I can see how easily it would have happened.

Munchingmischief · 08/07/2020 15:23

I'm trying to laugh. I'm sat here sniggering like Muttley. 😂

Redred2429 · 08/07/2020 15:27

This is brilliant 😂

Northernsoullover · 08/07/2020 15:35

Oh I've done worse.. stalked my ex on Facebook (drunk) only I didn't use the search bar. I used my status update. Woke up to see 'Bob Smith' in big letters on my timeline. Someone had actually liked it. This is one of many reasons I no longer drink alcohol.

lockdownbreakdown · 08/07/2020 15:35

Just blame the kids or indeed anyone else kids who got hold of your phone

blanche85 · 08/07/2020 15:36

@Northernsoullover

Oh I've done worse.. stalked my ex on Facebook (drunk) only I didn't use the search bar. I used my status update. Woke up to see 'Bob Smith' in big letters on my timeline. Someone had actually liked it. This is one of many reasons I no longer drink alcohol.
Hahaha this has made me feel slightly better...thanks!!
OP posts:
Roussette · 08/07/2020 15:54

blanche you've really made me laugh! Hope you're getting over it. We've all done it...

Had many wrong buttons pressed on FB but my worst thing was... and I'm shrivelling inside thinking about it...

DH was away abroad on a short break playing golf with mates, and I was going out with the girlfriends, plenty of drinks round here, all dressed up. Took a photo of my cleavage and sent it to him saying 'I bet you'd like to get your hands on these babies'. Grin

Except I accidentally sent it to my 17 year old nephew. I realised as I pressed the button (it was back in the day of texting) couldn't stop it. Died a million times. Dreaded facing him.....