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AIBU?

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To fancy men with big bellies?

111 replies

bigbellyliker · 05/07/2020 09:58

I have a 'thing' for men with big bellies. Always have. DH has one. I'm always touching it, looking at it etc, I've no idea why I like it. 🤨🤨

I often worry that there's something wrong with me. I never, ever would attempt to manipulate anyone like those 'feeder' documentaries you see on TV. It's not about food, I just fancy men with big bellies in general. I know it's unhealthy to store fat there and I feel guilty about that. But I can't help liking it. It's like a fetish.

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totallyinapproppriate · 05/07/2020 17:03

I prefer a bit of a tummy, (though not obesity), I like the soft tactile fleshiness of it. Six packs do nothing for me. My first love had a soft beer belly (well, probably a pie and chips belly to be honest). I think that probably wired my sexual attraction programming Grin

flirtygirl · 05/07/2020 17:20

This is such an interesting thread. Thank goodness we all like different things. Human diversity is great.

I don't mind thin or chunky or muscular but what they all have in common is they have to be tall. And I mean proper tall, 6 foot is baseline, 6 foot 2 and above really.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 05/07/2020 17:40

[quote OldGreyBoots]@BeingATwatItsABingThing that's funny, the thought of being small next to someone makes me really uncomfortable, especially in a partner scenario! I still wear heels when I feel like it (which isn't often to be honest) and he has no complaints that I'm taller Grin
This is a really good thread, I love everyone's different preferences![/quote]
I’m smaller than average (5ft3) so it’s not difficult to be taller than me. My DH is 6ft and the ‘runt’ of his family. Apart from his mum and one sister, the rest of his family are all taller than him.

It’s definitely good we all like different things. Grin I say this to my group of friends regularly. The four of us have very different taste in men and that’s a good thing because we’ve never been attracted to the same men.

CharityRoyall · 05/07/2020 18:27

I like slim, muscular men but am fat myself. One of my friends loves chubby men with big bellies. Doesn’t do it for me at all! My partner is typically attracted to slim/athletic women so he went completely west with me. Nothing to do with control he just found me attractive 🤷🏻‍♀️
My type is slim men but I wouldn’t rule out chubbier men at all!

TimeWastingButFun · 05/07/2020 18:31

Oh no. And another one about Dominic Cummings. What's happening, ladies??

TimeWastingButFun · 05/07/2020 18:31

Oh no. And another one about Dominic Cummings. What's happening, ladies??

bigbellyliker · 05/07/2020 19:22

I hate to 'judge' on appearance, especially as I'm nothing special myself, but I couldn't be with someone under say 5ft 6in. I'm a short woman.

Again, like with the belly thing, I've no idea of the reason why ConfusedConfused

I like big bellies, I much much prefer them. I can still find slim men attractive though. So they don't have to be big. It's just that a huge belly for some reason drives me absolutely insane with lust GrinGrin. Guess then it's not as concerning as I sometimes think it is.

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letmethinkaboutitfornow · 05/07/2020 19:25

Each to their own OP @bigbellyliker 😱
I like a bit of chunk but not a pot /beer belly.
Can they tie their shoes? 😂😂😂

JovialNickname · 05/07/2020 23:53

I have a friend (yes really, it honestly isn't me) who is female, young and pretty but has a fetish about being with old, fat, ugly men. She says it's something to do with the taboo nature of it, and also she says she gets off on seeing her youthful pretty body pressed up against the beer belly, amongst other things. Really! I guess it takes all sorts.

(No jokes from men about passing on their number please, she gets it all the time and doesn't find that funny)

Fstchubbyoldmanchaser · 17/03/2024 12:06

Nw london..disabled single gay white male......smoker. seeks 1 on 2 committed monogamous with a white haired 70 yr old too 90 yr old , 25 stone passive bottom man with big big man boobs and big big large belly with over hang and smooth body and shaved below....

totallyinapproppriate · 17/03/2024 12:43

It’s probably a learnt response. My first love had a belly and because of him, I found them attractive even for quite a while after him. My next love was a cyclist and I found cyclists sexy for a while…

So I think it’s nothing more than a learnt association.

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