I won't pretend being stuck at home because of Covid-19 hasn't been mind numbingly boring at times, it's just me and my husband (husband 32, i'm 33) who have both been fortunate to be able to work still but there are limited activities to do in the evening. But husband has become somewhat 'addicted' to his playstation. He will play it nearly every evening, for hours on end, headset on and zoned out of any reality whilst leaving clothes, mess, washing up etc to pile up and me, the maid, will clear up. It has been going on for a number of months.
I had a teary day the other day, i'm struggling financially, job is at risk, feeling quite lonely and so on so asked husband in the morning if we could do something together that evening as i've not seen him properly for a few weeks due to work, he has been getting home late and he'll go on the playstation but low and behold, gets home from work and goes straight on to the playstation and there he stays.
The playstation I can tolerate most of the time, I get that there isn't much to do at the moment but when he chooses his virtual reality world over actual reality I find it a big relationship block. Husband will throw money at me saying "go and buy yourself something nice" but that's not what i'm after. I just want a evening where we can do something together and the fact that I was having a cry and it didn't make any difference and it does makes me wonder how much he really cares.
We only married last year and I feel our connection slipping away rapidly.
Does anyone have any ideas on what to do, talking to him about how it bothers me in certain times doesn't work, so what will?