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to be disappointed that my son's Morrisby results say he should look at a career as an actuary.

169 replies

Caroline1852 · 26/09/2007 10:23

I want him to do something interesting. It is so hard not to roll round on the floor crying, no no no, nerdy nerdy nerdy. I wanted him to do something I might like. The other suggestions were equally scary: Microbiologist, Chemist, Bio-Scientist. Doctor was the only reasonable suggestion in my book and I wouldn't actually encourage him to do that as it is so stressful. I want him to have a nice life with hot chicks in pursuit. An actuary wtf.

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fedupwasherwoman · 26/09/2007 10:26

I believe Actuaries exist to make Accountancy look exciting by comparison.

Actuarial work requires a really good mathematical brain and attention to detail. The last time I looked it was quite high up the pay leagues too.

miobombino · 26/09/2007 10:28

What age is he ?

NormaStanleyFletcher · 26/09/2007 10:28

Yep - the amount he would earn as an actuary can be quite staggering

What did you want him to be?

A rock star?

Hulababy · 26/09/2007 10:29

What's wrong with being a scientist?

How old is your child, and sorry but ont he face of it YABU!

Kathyis6incheshigh · 26/09/2007 10:30

What? He will earn loads!

I had a friend at school who had a famously gifted brother - they were Vietnamese refugees and Yul Brynner paid his school fees. When he was at Cambridge he rescued a woman from drowning and ended up on a list of eligible bachelors in Tatler or some such. He became an actuary.

I think it's quite a creative way to use maths.

OliviaMumsnet · 26/09/2007 10:30

My brother (now an engineer) was advised to be a fitted carpet layers so my parents didn't bother with the test for me

marthamoo · 26/09/2007 10:31

"I wanted him to do something I might like."

How about he does something he might like?

Kathyis6incheshigh · 26/09/2007 10:31

ROFL Olivia. Mine said biology teacher (which my mum was) or tv presenter (yeah right) or.... wait for it.....

Assistant Prison Governor

(why only assistant? )

duchesse · 26/09/2007 10:32

Kathy -I think I was at university with your school mate. Initials RC?

belgo · 26/09/2007 10:32

yabu. your comment says it all:

'I wanted him to do something I might like'

You should want him to do something that he will like.

WideWebWitch · 26/09/2007 10:33

Actuaries are well paid you know! lol at "I believe Actuaries exist to make Accountancy look exciting by comparison", quite!

but anyway, what's a Morrisby result? Can anyone get one?

belgo · 26/09/2007 10:33

xposts marthamoo !

Budababe · 26/09/2007 10:33

Good money in it! But agree it is not the most exciting sounding career. If he has that sort of mathematical brain then accountancy as a qualification opens lots of other doors.

marthamoo · 26/09/2007 10:33

Yeah, can you do it online? I'd like to see what I should be when I grow up.

WideWebWitch · 26/09/2007 10:34

£150k

How old is he?
(you're going to say 4 or something aren't you?!)

tiredemma · 26/09/2007 10:35

Ive just done half of it- but got bored halfway through

marthamoo · 26/09/2007 10:35

Morrisby

sixlostmonkeys · 26/09/2007 10:35

We cannot live our own life through our children. I want my son to do something he likes.
He needs encouragement in whatever he decides to do, and to be negative about any options may create the stress you wish to avoid should he decide to become a doctor.
Encouraging a life where hot chicks are the 'prize' is not really the way to go

Hulababy · 26/09/2007 10:35

Morrisby - psychometric test used by careers or advice & guidance workers. I'll try and find it...

Hulababy · 26/09/2007 10:36

x post with marthamoo.

tiredemma · 26/09/2007 10:36

HOW OLD IS HE?????

hanaflower · 26/09/2007 10:36

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marthamoo · 26/09/2007 10:38

I only got as far as question 2 before I got bored. I obviously need a job which requires the attention span of a gnat.

Kathyis6incheshigh · 26/09/2007 10:39

Duchesse - yes - it was the sister I was friends with, NMC, and her brother was RC.

Niecie · 26/09/2007 10:39

The training is apparently very long - hopefully that will put him off.

Disappointing though it maybe that the list doesn't come up with something you would like you can't project your hopes and dreams onto him. If he does what you want rather than what he would be good at or would like it will only lead to unhappiness on his part and I am sure none of us want our dc to be unhappy.

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