Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

See all MNHQ comments on this thread

to be disappointed that my son's Morrisby results say he should look at a career as an actuary.

169 replies

Caroline1852 · 26/09/2007 10:23

I want him to do something interesting. It is so hard not to roll round on the floor crying, no no no, nerdy nerdy nerdy. I wanted him to do something I might like. The other suggestions were equally scary: Microbiologist, Chemist, Bio-Scientist. Doctor was the only reasonable suggestion in my book and I wouldn't actually encourage him to do that as it is so stressful. I want him to have a nice life with hot chicks in pursuit. An actuary wtf.

OP posts:
Kewcumber · 26/09/2007 13:43

accountancy is a big enough field (like law) to cover most personality types. I don;t think I'm "typical" accountancy material (Lemonaid might disgree!) but ended up in the media world as FD. A different accountant would be financial controller in a bank for example.

I did the BBC test it said Entrepreneurial, Social Investigative. S & I probably true but don;t think I am in the least bit entrepreneurial - too risk averse. They are confusing being a mouthy git with being entrepreneurial

anorak · 26/09/2007 13:45

My DH has a very specialised job in custody tax (whatever that is) mostly he has to know all about company tax regulations on investments when they are moved from one country to another (asleep yet) but he loves it and gets paid very well, has just started his new job in Bermuda where I will be joining him soon, living in house with pool etc. He is often asked to dinner and is a fun person who likes sport, pop music, going to the pub etc.

Someone else I know who is an actuary is also a sportsman and very competent musician. Why should these jobs mean a person is dull? I expect some of them are dull, but then there are dull people in every sector of life.

And he may not choose the route of being an actuary anyway. chill out

Niecie · 26/09/2007 13:45

Caroline - chances are if you end up wanting to be an actuary you will have been interested enough to do maths A level in the first place. If you do A levels that you enjoy you can't go that far wrong.

Most careers don't require particular A levels or even degrees anyway. You can be an accountant, lawyer, teacher etc without having done any particular subject at all.

Kewcumber · 26/09/2007 13:47

Where were all these interesting actuaries when I was auditing a Life Assurance company many years ago??? I could be shacked up with one of them now. Instead they were like cleaned up, slightly duller versions of s=Stig of the Dump and didn't come out of their room to mix with the hoi polloi unless forced to.

SuperMonkey · 26/09/2007 13:53

Caroline - it just got a bit samey after a few years which, to be honest, is probably the same with most jobs. I just don't think I'm cut out for work!

Tinker · 26/09/2007 13:55

Misread thread title - thought OP had a son called Morrisby. I thought 'How mn'

Am getting quite excited reading about actuaries - wish I could be one now.

Ilovebuttons · 26/09/2007 13:55

is anyone actually what that test said they should be?!
mine said I should be a geologist and I am an illustrator
loads of girls in my school got told they were suited to being a prison warden/parole officer - think if you said you cared about people or something (I obviously didn't!)

this reminds me of my dad who has two career paths to recommend - if he thinks you are quite bright he tells you to be an optician - if not, you should be a pastry chef?! no idea where he got this from

pixie54 · 26/09/2007 13:59

What are you worried about! My DH is an actuary - he earns £300k pa and loves his job. He always loved numbers and maths.

Yes, the training is very, very hard and there are a lot of nerdy actuaries, but in our experience the ones we meet are funny, intelligent, good company and highly successful.

Working in life insurance and pensions is not nearly as interesting or well paid as general insurance or reinsurance ( which can be fascinating - all earthquakes, global terrorism and tidal waves) .
Salaries in the City and especially for reinsurance companies are much higher.

Caroline1852 · 26/09/2007 16:16

anorak - you missed morris dancing off your DH's list of hobbies .

OP posts:
Issy · 26/09/2007 16:35

This reply has been withdrawn

This has been withdrawn by MNHQ at OP's request

Issy · 26/09/2007 16:37

This reply has been withdrawn

This has been withdrawn by MNHQ at OP's request

Lilymaid · 26/09/2007 17:56

Maths degree every time. I did a law degree and it was tedious. Many of the best lawyers don't do a law degree but do another subject - e.g. English, History or Maths and then do the conversion course. I'm pretty sure that BP would prefer the Maths graduate.

kimi · 26/09/2007 18:00

This is his life not yours.............

He could just become a drug addict on the dole.

And whats wrong with nerds?

kimi · 26/09/2007 18:02

Oh and anoraks hubby is a wonderful, funny, witty, smart, fun bloke not at all nerdy of boring.........

Can I come to Bermuda now

chonky · 26/09/2007 18:07

I think YABU. There are far greater things to worry about in this life than will your child become an actuary. I hate to say it, but several of the actuaries I know and love are far from blinking dependable, and certainly haven't lacked in female attention , so if that's what's worrying you, I can allay your fears. Maybe I like them though because my degree is in biomedical science

batters · 26/09/2007 18:49

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

beemail · 26/09/2007 18:56

Agree with some of the other posters Morrisby i only a starting point and should be administered by those qualified to do so - I think a 2 week intensive training prog on top of 2 yr pg training as careers adviser - not your average "careers teacher" then!
The test takes 3 hrs and the feedback session should form part of a careers guidance interview and provide some insight into strengths and weaknesses as well as offering a range of career suggestions which usually involve some careers that students may not have already considered. It is MUCH more detailed than your average 10 min online test. It is not saying what you should be! It should be a catalyst for further research and discussion.
and oh yes ..........whose career will it be???!!!
It is of course much more important that your son makes a flexible choice of AS levels which will leave various options open to him as well as leaving him with a programme of study which will interest him and in which he can excel.
He could as many people have said do much worse than being an actuary but the really important thing is of course that he goes into something that HE enjoys!

trixymalixy · 26/09/2007 18:59

PMSL!!!!

I am an actuary.

I have a lovely life with a career I enjoy.

I am one of the few out of my friends who enjoys their job including doctors, lawyers, designers all sorts. Plus I get paid well and work fewer hours than most of themm allowing me to enjoy life outside of work as well.

I think you should find out more about it before passing judgement. It is a challenging and rewarding career.

bigwombat · 26/09/2007 19:29

It is a long slog to get there as an actuary though I think - my ex-h dropped out after several years of trying and failing exams, and one of his friends was still taking the exams well into his 30s! Maybe they just weren't cut out for it.

You said, Caroline, that there's no point doing arty subjects if you want to be an accountant - in fact, I did arty A levels and degree, and still ended up an accountant and feel that I'm quite suited to it (terrible admission). The same applies to a fair few other jobs I'm sure.

Myself, I would do what I was best at for A level with only half an eye on the future. Good results will open more doors.

MyEye · 26/09/2007 19:51

(I am impressed, I did that test Marthamoo posted the link to, via the fasttomato site, and as I did it I was thinking, 'load of crap, there's no way this is finding out anything about me' and then when I pressed 'results' it came up with a long list of suggestions -- and top of the list was my job. I am quite .)

marthamoo · 26/09/2007 22:56

Yes, I'm thinking I'd like to be an actuary too. Like the sound of the money. The sticking point would be that I am utterly crap at maths.

I think ds1 or ds2 (or even better, both of 'em) can be actuaries. Then they can keep me in the manner to which I would like to become accustomed.

I did the BBC test (got bored with the Doggsby Morrisby one). I am artistic and investigative but not realistic or enterprising.

Tinker · 26/09/2007 23:14

Oh, I was artistic and investigative (and social ) but not realistic or enterprising either Very accurate for me I must say

marthamoo · 26/09/2007 23:21

Hey, I'm social too

spinspinsugar · 26/09/2007 23:27

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

harrisey · 27/09/2007 01:37

When we did something like this at school mine said

librarian (for a noisy chatty person)
and
graduate nurse (for someone who is sick at the drop of a hat, esp when other people are being sick, and wtf Graduate - arent all nurses pretty good?)

I ended up as a Geography teacher, then a SAHM and now a Theology student.

FWIW, actuary would scare me for my kids too, But worse would be doctor (their Dad is one) when I see the stress and the hours involved.

Swipe left for the next trending thread