If my child breaks a leg, the treatment pathway is decided by an appropriately qualified doctor. If my child has a broken brain or mental health the gateway is school or via a CAMHS nurse. In no other branch of medicine does this ludicrous system prevail
I know of at least one service where the treatment "gateway" is more like a labyrinth.
Here, there is a Byzantine pathway for adult orthopaedics. The GP has to get a radiology report, then refer to the "musculo-skeletal service", run by a private company. The wait for an assessment appointment with their phsyio is 9 months. If they think you need to see a surgeon, you have to see an "advanced practitioner" physio as the first one isn't authorised to make the referral. But the "advanced practitioner" now needs their own radiology report, because the one the GP got is over a year old. And then blood tests. And then an MRI. I'm 18 months into this palaver, and will hopefully hear in a couple of weeks time if I'm going to see a surgeon. We live in a Trust area with a high proportion of elderly people, I'm convinced that all these delays are built in in the hope that patients will shuffle off before they get seen by a surgeon, let alone have surgery.
I'm sure that in a lot of specialisms, including MH services, the delays caused by trying to save money end up costing more in the long run because people deteriorate while they're waiting for the next stage of the process. And many people would go private if they could, like you did, if they could afford it.