Damned if I know.
We first visited the GP about DD1s behaviour in 2013. 7 years later and we’ve had every referral to CAMHs returned with ‘helpful’ suggestions about how to manage her behaviour. The underlying implication is that unless we submit evidence to say we have done these suggestions which are books, charity run courses, workshops, family worker etc that they won’t consider any further referrals. These suggestions are not helpful because it is so broad it doesn’t address the underlying cause of the behaviour.
In the meantime, I have sustained so many injuries from my child requiring medical treatment (a burn for instance took one a&e visit and many follow up appts at the gp surgery). This, I have no doubt adds costs to the NHS.
We’ve gone private and at the first session they saw that she was highly anxious and likely ASD so we are funding the further assessments privately.
It seems to me that now is the time to be teaching our children how to cope with their mental health so that they become less of a burden on the Adult mental health services later on. Surely that investment is worth it? I say this as someone who has finished 20 sessions of CBT via the NHS and am now on a 2 year waiting list for specialist counselling (Run by a non profit).
And the ‘Mum might like to read these books’ etc it’s infuriating, why acknowledge the family of having a mum, dad and siblings to then place the entire weight on ‘Mum’.
Thanks to those that have posted links - I’ve come across a few really helpful things 