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AIBU?

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To make a move on my manager?

54 replies

Clarahis · 14/06/2020 15:59

Bear with me please before you all immediately say YABU. I've been working very closely with my manager for a year now and we get on extremely well, lots of similar interests, same sense of humour etc, I massively fancy him. I've never acted anything other than professional because he's my manager and also because he had a girlfriend. He's made some comments to me recently which imply that him and his girlfriend are no longer together and I am single.

We both move onto other projects in a few weeks and are highly unlikely to be working together again. When we're finished, I'm thinking that I could casually suggest to him that we go for a drink at some point to stay in touch. I would obviously be hoping this could lead somewhere but it may not. Would it be a very bad idea for me to do this?

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Jenasaurus · 14/06/2020 18:55

On the age gap thing, my DM was 23 and my DF 32 When they started dating, he was her boss, and back then it was the talk of the office as it was frowned upon, they got engaged in 6 weeks and married 6 months later and were very happily married.

LaurieFairyCake · 17/06/2020 18:16

Have you made your move yet ? Grin

Clarahis · 17/06/2020 23:18

We're still working together so not yet, I'll update you all when (if!) I do 😂

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Girlsjustwanna · 18/06/2020 00:10

Hope he’s single!

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