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to think you are utter scum

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NotEnoughTime · 13/06/2020 19:41

if you attack people who are sitting peacefully eating their picnic in a park?
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FliesandPies · 13/06/2020 22:26

Serious question here...search deep. What if the picnic people were black? Would this thread exist? Would you feel the same? Do you feel offended I have even asked that?

i know I'm not totally free of racism due to my background but I can absolutely state I would feel the same - in fact I would probably feel more fear for the picnic people and would assume that the mob would have been more violent towards them.

And I do think the thread would exist and I don't feel offended by the question but not sure why you would expect a different answer here?

saveeno · 13/06/2020 22:27

That was disgusting, but I'm not surprised either, sadly. These goons are what my old Dad used to call "rent a crowd". They are always spoiling for violence and look for any excuse to carry it out. Complete arseholes.

So sorry for the group sitting quietly doing no harm to anyone, and being faced with this utterly sinister group. I hope it doesn't get worse.

NotAnotherUserNumber · 13/06/2020 22:27

Why would it make any difference who either group of people were? This is absolutely horrifying because it is one group of people minding their own business and another group of strangers attacking them for no reason. The characteristics of the people involved are irrelevant.

FliesandPies · 13/06/2020 22:31

And then wonder if the men were black and the picnic people were white how would you feel? Until all is equal within your viseral feelings there is an issue. And that is why BLM exists

I don't understand what you're asking? If the mob were black and the picnic people white I would still feel worried and upset. What else is there to feel about a large irrationally belligerent group of any type targeting a small group peacefully enjoying the park?

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 13/06/2020 22:32

What else is there to feel about a large irrationally belligerent group of any type targeting a small group peacefully enjoying the park

Exactly

Smilethoyourheartisbreaking · 13/06/2020 22:33

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Smilethoyourheartisbreaking · 13/06/2020 22:34

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FliesandPies · 13/06/2020 22:35

I don't get what you're on about Smile. And it's visceral btw (sorry, just bugs me..)

Sandsnake · 13/06/2020 22:38

They’re football hooligans, who’ve not had a fight for three months and have clearly grown bored of beating up their wives and girlfriends. I can’t quite find the words to articulate my hatred for them.

FliesandPies · 13/06/2020 22:38

But probably the majority of pp posting here are of the conscious type who do question themselves and 'check their thinking' and so on. That's not going to stop blokes like this behaving like that.

Smilethoyourheartisbreaking · 13/06/2020 22:40

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FliesandPies · 13/06/2020 22:40

I meant the misspelling of 'visceral' bugs me..

NotEnoughTime · 13/06/2020 22:41

Smile

I'm the OP and I can honestly say I couldn't care less whether the thugs or the picnickers (is that even a word?) were black/white/green or orange. It matters not a jot to me, I would still feel absolute horror at what I saw.

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Persiaclementine · 13/06/2020 22:47

@Smilethoyourheartisbreaking

Serious question here...search deep. What if the picnic people were black? Would this thread exist? Would you feel the same? Do you feel offended I have even asked that?

I'm interested

What a stupid question

Of course people would be disgusted, horrified ect if the people were black, why on earth wouldn't they be ?

NewAccountForCorona · 13/06/2020 22:48

I don't understand how the ethnic background of either the picnickers or the attackers would make any difference at all. I'd be equally shocked by the attackers' behaviour.

Smilethoyourheartisbreaking · 13/06/2020 22:53

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Sandybval · 13/06/2020 22:53

If a baying mob of drunk racist louts was heading towards a group of black picnic-ers I would feel more worried Confused. It's absolutely abborhent and a disgrace as is, but not sure if you're trying to insinuate that people are only outraged as they appear to be white?

Smilethoyourheartisbreaking · 13/06/2020 22:54

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MojoMoon · 13/06/2020 22:55

Fucking hell, they need to restart the football matches and Wetherspoons ASAP so these morons can go back to their normal sad little lives in their shit small towns and leave young couples having a picnic in Hyde Park in safety and peace.

The misogyny as well as racism drips out of every pore of their being.

It was ridiculous the police hadn't banned booze sales in the Tesco by Westminster station until mid afternoon. They should have been a booze sales banning order across Westminster since these are guys whose all point of existence is to get pissed up in a group and then go an intimidate people.

Persiaclementine · 13/06/2020 22:56

@Sandybval

If a baying mob of drunk racist louts was heading towards a group of black picnic-ers I would feel more worried Confused. It's absolutely abborhent and a disgrace as is, but not sure if you're trying to insinuate that people are only outraged as they appear to be white?
Sadly I think that's smiles point and it's getting a little tiresome now
EmmetEmma · 13/06/2020 23:00

I think it is a valid question because we do subconsciously react differently to different races.

I thought about your question Smile. As far as I can tell, I would react with slightly more fear if the picnickers were black because the outcome would be worse.

I absolutely hate the far right with everything in my body, I find what they stand for so full of anger and poison that actually if they were a group other than white supremacists I might feel a very small amount less panicked if I was there but that would be barely noticeable.

Rationally any group of men high on
bloodlust, regardless of race, is terrifying and makes me feel extremely angry.

MrsTerryPratchett · 13/06/2020 23:01

@Smilethoyourheartisbreaking

I have only asked how people how they would feel. Nothing else. It is interesting and perhaps a way to look into your own reactions

Sometimes we have to actually think

And then wonder if the men were black and the picnic people were white how would you feel?

Until all is equal within your viseral feelings there is an issue. And that is why BLM exists

I agree that thinking, examining and mulling this stuff is important. We all grew up in a racist environment to a greater or lesser extent because the world is racist to a greater or lesser extent. It would be pretty stunning to come out of that unscathed.

Having grown up with skinheads ruling the streets in South London I can say that racist violence towards black people is utterly terrifying to me. If it was a group of black men attacking white people in the park, also terrifying. Honestly, I find large groups of aggressive men pretty problematic. I don't think I've ever actually experienced a large group of aggressive black men though. Many many football crowds of drunk white men though and I don't like that one bit.

BlueTreeBlue · 13/06/2020 23:06

Nasty, nasty scum!
I hope they are recognised on the footage and absolutely shamed in their communities. They are abhorrent.
Smile, I would feel equally horrified if the pic nicers where black people. You then asked what if it were a group of black people attacking white pic nicers - to be honest this is more difficult to imagine, because I associate this type of hooligan, mindless, fascist group violence with white people and not black people.

BlueTreeBlue · 13/06/2020 23:10

@MrsTerryPratchett exactly that, you have put it in much better words than me. I’m very wary of those drunk, football crowds of white men. They are terrifying.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 13/06/2020 23:15

The ones who have voted YABU are every bit as bad as them. I don't give a holy fart who that offends. If you agree with mob behavior( and you must do to say YABU). You are as bad as them

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