talulasmum, i say this in the friendliest way possible... what did you think you'd achieve by this? it's only continuing because you keep coming back and making loony generalisations.
i'm sorry about your miscarriages, of course, that's utterly rough and horrible. i think what the poster meant was that you'll see if you go on the board that many a middle class (whatever that means) person has had rough times, and it's those experiences that bind us. other than that we're just words on a screen. you could, for all i know, be Liz Hurley, what with your Notting Hill dinner parties and all. all we are on here is What We Type. it's a release, don't you see?
i can't take all this class stuff seriously. my folks and their folks worked like fuck to get to a generation where their children would get the chance to go to university, (which i think must place me firmly in the middle class) and i don't see why i should be ashamed of their efforts. perhaps that's why this thread is going so badly, you're insulting a lot of people in one fell swoop here.
but if i slagged off your parents for not working hard enough to get you into the middle classes, if i slagged you off for smoking or being a single mother or whatever i would rightly be vilified on here and you would be angry, so all that's happening is that you're dishing it out and getting it back.
and because there is one of you and loads of us who feel insulted, it feels worse for you. you can end this in a flash by switching off the computer... a child receiving texts or emails threatening them cannot do that, so that's why it's a stretch to say it's cyber-bullying.
anyway, try to step back, and certainly don't get upset about it, it's not worth being unhappy over. i hope you stay, you might find some of the people who (on the surface) you have least in common with are the ones who turn out to be there for you when you need them.