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Would it put you off a man if he spoke in detail about exes looks?

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SunshineOverStress · 04/06/2020 22:47

For instance if during a general conversation they randomly mentioned how good looking past conquests were, perfect body big boobs big bum completely flat stomach model type, stunning etc without asking them? Like going into extensive detail about their looks when you haven’t asked them what they look like or anything in regards to their looks? This has happened more than once by the way...

Wondering if I’m being sensitive to finding it off-putting and thinking why is he telling me this? Is it because of his own insecurities And to big himself up or to make me feel insecure/jealous?
Turn off or am I being unreasonable?

OP posts:
SunshineOverStress · 08/06/2020 11:43

He had already rated himself in front of me he put himself at a 5... I just listened hahah

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Alittleshortforaspacepooper · 08/06/2020 11:58

What a loser. You're well shot of him OP Grin

Aweebawbee · 08/06/2020 12:01

My ex used to do this and after we broke up I realised that I had become one of the 'gorgeous' women from his past. I ran into him and his new gf a year or so later. She looked at me with total consfusion, clearly not what she had been expecting.

MulticolourMophead · 08/06/2020 12:24

@SunshineOverStress

He had already rated himself in front of me he put himself at a 5... I just listened hahah
He rated himself so low, because you were supposed to respond with "Aww, you are much better looking than that", ie, a stroke to his ego.
3LittleMonkeyz · 08/06/2020 12:26

You would be U to do anything other than LTB.

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