He will be banned so his job is now gone.
This is the latest in a long line of selfish and manipulative behaviour (because he will manipulate you when he sobers you) mainly centred around alcohol.
You are with an alcohol dependent man who has yet again prioritised drink over police charges, his driving licence and therefore his job aka a massive chunk of his children's security.
Not to mention the fact he's bloody lucky he didn't (hopefully) hurt himself of anyone else.
I've re-read your other threads (I remembered them as I really felt for you) and he is so utterly selfish and self destructive that he is not capable of being in a relationship.
Please don't waste any more time showing your children this as the blueprint for a relationship. You don't mean to I know, and fuck me youve been doing an amazing job basically being two parents at once, but you are both part of modelling unhealthy, dysfunctional and damaging relationships to them.
If you summon the courage to tell him it's over and he threatens to harm himself (be ready for this threat, it's manipulator 101) then tell him you are doing this for the children. So they can live in a safe and healthy environment and learn how healthy and happy people live together and treat each other.
He will have the space to either work on himself for himself and his children, with medical help and therapy, or hit rock bottom.
It is YOUR responsibility to protect your children, not to protect him.
I know you don't think he would but if he was drinking and desperate for more drink and wanted one enough, if you weren't there, he would either drink drive with them in the car or leave them unattended. Either way their safety wouldn't come first. Do you believe that yet?
And he'd be devastated and so so sorry, genuinely, but his actions described in even just the threads on here show that he would risk them.
Please don't let him convince you that you need to save him. Save your kids instead.
