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Women who started the NHS clap now thinks it should stop

171 replies

Rosehip10 · 22/05/2020 20:27

www.theguardian.com/world/2020/may/22/lets-stop-clapping-for-the-nhs-says-woman-who-started-the-ritual

I agree. What do you think?

Aside from virtue signalling from politicians, the clap also seems to have descended into competitive virtue signalling - egged on by both normal and social media.

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TossACoinToYourWitcher · 22/05/2020 20:30

Wakes my kids every time thanks to next door with a fecking saucepan and a yapping dog.

If we really appreciated health and social care staff then we should stop voting for shitty parties that won't fund those services properly.

MrsTerryPratchett · 22/05/2020 20:31

Didn't the Italians start it?

WelcomeToTheNorth · 22/05/2020 20:32

Whilst I would love to see it stop, she’s on to plums if she thinks people will stop on her say so Confused

Merryoldgoat · 22/05/2020 20:33

I think it was stupid in the first place.

LudaMusser · 22/05/2020 20:34

I've seen NHS workers saying it needs to stop. That's all you need to know

bridgetreilly · 22/05/2020 20:34

Should have stopped weeks and weeks ago.

ChandlerIsTheBestFriend · 22/05/2020 20:35

I haven’t heard it happen here since the second week. Thankfully.

HappyPunky · 22/05/2020 20:36

It makes me think of the two minutes hate when I hear it - but obviously it's the opposite.

Bracknellite · 22/05/2020 20:40

@happypunky. Two minutes hate, exactly where my mind went when it started. Bojo as big brother

grannyhorse · 22/05/2020 20:40

Yes stop it. The weekly wildlife scaring

TheMotherofAllDilemmas · 22/05/2020 20:43

I think it has to stop. What’s the point of clapping when we are behaving so irresponsibly when out?

If we really want to show appreciation for their hard work, we should show it by not putting ourselves at risk to need their help.

HappyPunky · 22/05/2020 20:43

@bracknellite yeah!! Except he's so useless and dithers around

MouthBreathingRage · 22/05/2020 20:46

Yes, it's got ridiculous (more so than the initial idea). Was just a clap in the first couple of weeks, fine whatever makes people feel like they're 'doing something' at the moment. Now though, it's pots, pans, whooping, car horns, fireworks. It's stupid and inconsiderate one- upmanship rather than doing it for any good cause.

I never thought it was a good idea to put the NHS on a pedestal though. It was only a matter of time before the population 'turned' on them.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 22/05/2020 20:47

HappyPunky Oh yes!

Tbh I've always felt I could get behind a two minute hate.

Charlieiscool · 22/05/2020 20:49

I like it because I get to see my neighbours and know they are ok. It’s a feeling of solidarity with them to have a chat or wave at each other for a couple of minutes around the clapping each week.

notwavingbutdrowning5 · 22/05/2020 20:50

If we really appreciated health and social care staff then we should stop voting for shitty parties that won't fund those services properly.

This 100 per cent, TossACoin.

zscaler · 22/05/2020 20:52

She’s not wrong. It’s ridiculous now. Lovely idea once, but every week feels contrived now.

Pleasenodont · 22/05/2020 20:53

It was fine for the first week or two but it’s gone on too long now. The fireworks and klaxons are just ridiculous.

Mrstwiddle · 22/05/2020 20:56

I thought it started with the Italians too, not sure why she’s claiming “credit” for it.

recycledteenager24 · 22/05/2020 20:56

some people are complete wankers with their stupid klaxons and stuff on thursdays.

RHTawneyonabus · 22/05/2020 20:57

It will gradually die out I think especially when things are a bit more normal and the schools are back etc

WhatsHappeningCaroleBaskin · 22/05/2020 20:58

I work for the NHS, it was nice the first week, maybe even 2 weeks, after that it was just annoying and at a really bad time for people (like me) trying to put children to bed.

Much rather that keyworkers (not just NHS) get the pay and benefits they deserve.

helpfulperson · 22/05/2020 20:59

At first I wasn't keen because I felt it forgot the other workers eg shops, posties etc but I've seen how good it's been for the more isolated, maybe older, people to go out once a week and be part of something with their community. It has really helped areas pull together. It's the highlight of my mum's week.

Chillipeanuts · 22/05/2020 20:59

MrsTerryPratchett

Didn't the Italians start it?”

Yes, think so. Could be wrong but I think it was also spontaneous and quite beautiful because of that.

I’m afraid the who can bang the pan loudest, push their children forward to sing/dance/play an instrument (whilst filming of course) or set up a PA system and “entertain” the locality whether they like it or not crew, on an organised, weekly basis just doesn’t have the same meaning to me.

And dear neighbour, who regularly glares up at our window on Thursday evenings because we’re not outside banging our pans: I’m sitting indoors with my 3 vulnerable loved ones, one of whom owes his life to NHS workers. We thank God for them every single day. Would just rather not go onto the doorstep and risk a virus, thanks.

And, breathe Grin

BeNiceToYourSister · 22/05/2020 21:01

Completely agree with her. Where will it end otherwise? We know most people support and appreciate the NHS, now let’s concentrate on making sure this government doesn’t fuck it up any more than they already have.