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Women who started the NHS clap now thinks it should stop

171 replies

Rosehip10 · 22/05/2020 20:27

www.theguardian.com/world/2020/may/22/lets-stop-clapping-for-the-nhs-says-woman-who-started-the-ritual

I agree. What do you think?

Aside from virtue signalling from politicians, the clap also seems to have descended into competitive virtue signalling - egged on by both normal and social media.

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Rosebel · 22/05/2020 21:56

It was pointless anyway and some of the people clapping are hypocrites as they don't follow the rules.
It's the fireworks that annoy me. My daughter and cats freak out every Thursday and it's not even dark at 8 so why let them off?

ThatUserNamesTakenTryAnother · 22/05/2020 22:01

notwavingbutdrowning5

If we really appreciated health and social care staff then we should stop voting for shitty parties that won't fund those services properly.

absolutely 👍

justamumof1 · 22/05/2020 22:02

They can do it a bit earlier. Not when my child is trying to fucking sleep

Bargainhuntbore · 22/05/2020 22:03

At last! Tedious. No more fucking saucepan clanging👏🏻

SunshineOutdoors · 22/05/2020 22:06

Ah, admittedly we’ve all been terribly polite on our street and just done a bit of self conscious clapping for a minute or two but we’re terraced houses straight out onto the street and I enjoy a little catch up with my neighbour across the road while we’re at our front doors. It’s done in a nice spirit here and feels like a small bit of appreciation we can show. I fully understand why you’d be pissed off when I read about fireworks, karaoke and air horns on Mumsnet though.

MsLumley · 22/05/2020 22:07

Oh yes it needs to stop. In my area it's 1 min clapping for NHS and the rest (25 mins) chatting to the neighbours.

Auntgiraffe · 22/05/2020 22:07

The first week was a nice gesture but it should have stopped then. Our neighbours who don't observe social distancing are out clapping loud and proud.

Reminds me too much of the two minute hate.

I think if anything we should have a two minute scream for everyone who is fed up. Kids getting you down? Scream. Manager being a twat? Scream. Cant get any flour? Scream. Sick of the sight of your house? Let rip.

Auntgiraffe · 22/05/2020 22:09

In fact no, let's not do any socially monitored doorstep activity again.

Lovely idea. Been done. Let's move on.

Pixxie7 · 22/05/2020 22:15

I thought the Spanish started it.

Jaxhog · 22/05/2020 22:16

I think it has to stop. What’s the point of clapping when we are behaving so irresponsibly when out?

My thought too. If we REALLY wanted to respect and help the NHS workers, we'd be obeying the lockdown rules.

wanderings · 22/05/2020 22:18

The only word to describe this clapping ritual is Orwellian; it's like an inverted Two Minute Hate, as described in Nineteen Eighty-Four, where everyone makes as much noise as they can to all be part of "The Party", so that they all have the same emotions at the same time, and woe betide anyone who does not take part. I have not clapped once, because I don't like the sinister undertone, which makes its presence felt on social media, including Mumsnet.

As far as I'm concerned, this ritual is there to disguise the danger that we are sleepwalking into an oppressive regime, supposedly in the name of health. The public willingly handed over their freedom, and in many cases their jobs and livelihoods, and accepted this massive interference by the state with almost no resistance at all. Shock Tens of millions of people have sacrificed a huge amount, to save a relative few, to suffer this state-sponsored message of "we have to swaddle you in cotton wool for your own good, children". And even when Her Majesty's clowns tell us or more likely, kind of whisper it without actually saying the words that that lockdown is over (while the legislation will still be very much there, ready to be thrown at us on Boris's whim), many people will either be financially destitute, or be too scared to live their normal lives, because they've been brainwashed that we're all going to die if someone coughs, or if they fail to wear a mask.

The oppression is still going on, in subtle ways. Boris proudly told us we could go out and exercise as much as we like, which sounds fantastic; until we realise that public toilets are still closed, so we can't actually go very far. He also proudly told us that we can go back to work; but many of us can't, because our workplaces are not allowed to operate.

Wake up, people! This is no way to live. We have a right to enjoy our lives, not merely exist, or to be hoodwinked by a clappy ritual.

Dylaninthemovies1 · 22/05/2020 22:20

I like it as we get to say hi to all our neighbours! It’s the highlight of my 4 year old sons week (he gets to stay up late for it). Every morning he asks if it’s clapping day!

OohThatCat · 22/05/2020 22:21

I could do without our neighbours clapping and starting judgementally through our front room window because we don't go out.

The NHS need people to stop voting Tory, not endless clapping.

PafLeChien · 22/05/2020 22:23

I think it started in Italy, how cringey to claim it was hers. Is she related to Sam Bricks by any chance?

PafLeChien · 22/05/2020 22:24

Wake up, people! This is no way to live. We have a right to enjoy our lives, not merely exist, or to be hoodwinked by a clappy ritual.

we do have a right to enjoy our lives. So follow the guidelines and let us live in peace instead of thinking you are immune.

FirTree31 · 22/05/2020 22:25

I agree. It is the new wave of virtue signaling, people don't need to stand and clap or bang pots to appreciate Key Workers. I had radio 2 on today and a woman emailed in to say she had reported a neighbour to the police as she wasn't outside clapping Shock!

RedHelenB · 22/05/2020 22:28

@LillianBland you define uptight. It happens once a week, most clap without additional noise. You get more noise on a street normally.when not in lockdown
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highmarkingsnowbile · 22/05/2020 22:29

It needs to stop.

Davros · 22/05/2020 22:32

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Women who started the NHS clap now thinks it should stop
BrightYellowDaffodil · 22/05/2020 22:33

I’ve long since had enough of the pan-botherers.

Want to support the NHS? Stop patronising them with a pat on the head for their “selfless acts”, start recognising that they are professionals who deserve to be paid accordingly, and go vote for a party that will endorse that.

IdblowJonSnow · 22/05/2020 22:35

I think 10 weeks has been appropriate as its run alongside the worst of the cases and lockdown.
Happy to see it end after next week though.

Jux · 22/05/2020 22:36

I think it's had its day. I shall not be clapping next week.

Health workers of all stamps, carers, care workers - we owe you a tremendous debt. Thank you.

Moonmelodies · 22/05/2020 22:37

go vote for a party that will endorse that.

There isn't one.

PussGirl · 22/05/2020 22:39

I’m an NHS worker. The first week was great, supportive, fun, a bit emotional

Since then it has been pointless, contrived, glossing over the fact that we are expected to step up to the plate with crap PPE and are not getting anything extra for this at all

SouthWestmom · 22/05/2020 22:48

I've never done it but I'm sick of hearing people thinking they sound clever banging on about the two minute hate. It's a GCSE text; it's not some intellectual conceit we've never heard of. Enough bloody dropping it in in every bloody thread about it. Now James O'B has started using it can we not accept it's had its day?

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