to want to sleep with my friends husband

[maximopark]

omg, married 10 years, 3 kids, but am falling in love with another man. i see him at school of all places, his son and mine are in the same class. i am friends with his wife but i think she suspects i fancy her husband. does this mean;

1. im a selfish tart
2. my marriage is not as happy as i thought it was
3. im going through some sort of midlife crisis. please help, i cant stop thinking about him

rhubarb; your a real charmer!

rhubarb; a bit harsh! op didnt say
"have slept with friends husband"
think maxi has no intention of doing anything, just confused with her feelings. can happen to the best of us! you might have friends that fancy your husband wish some would fancy mine

in fairness maximo has had a range of opinion chucked at her (indeedy diverse range too) she held mine in deepest esteem

she has seen error of her wanton ways she is a sarf londoner aafter all

Go and have a frigging good shag with your DH. In fact don't have one have many and truly get it out of your system.

lololola; scottishmummy; barefeete; thanks for "defending me" i knew when i started this thread i was going to get alot of criticism, but it has all been constructive, indeed alot of mums have been in similar situations ( not you scottishmummy you minging old bag i really appreciate the time people have taken with me, and, i have seen the "error of my ways". thank you all so much.

rhubarb; i can only put your spitefulness down to jealousy, i know not everyone can pull a lovely hunk

i am a minging ole bag cause i do all me pottery with greasy hair, baggy cardigan, and itchy pants, in the library

I really respect you for being honest - it's not like you can admit this to your DH or other RL friends. Take care of yourself and find people who you can share your problems with honestly...

...and get a good shagging with DH and find the lerve again.

it means he is a poser!

Is it a crush, if it is your only human. No point on acting on it as the consequences could work out against you.

actualy i know exactlywhere you are coming from, you could be me!

how about making friends with the pair of them, surely the more you see of them, the less you will fancy him.
worth a shot

anytime maximo. just put all this into perspective, your enjoing the attention of a good looking man " who wouldnt!" i mean, its not like your selling your kids on ebay!........maxi......YOUR NOT!

up to £27.50 this morning for ds, with 6 days to go!

Like I say, I was only responding to the title and didn't have time to read all the posts.

Now I know you have no intention of actually wrecking someone else's family then I have more sympathy for you. Sure there are loads of people I'd like to shag, I wouldn't start a thread about it however because it's just life. My dh ain't exactly perfect, but he's the one I chose so I intend sticking with him and working out our problems - trust me, we've had our fair share of problems.

Good luck.