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AIBU?

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To feel really hopeful this month .....

135 replies

Isobored · 06/05/2020 01:19

After years of heartbreaking infertility with no known cause and multiple rounds of failed IVF. My period is 6 days late, I have dull cramp but nothing like it normally is. AIBU to wish/hope/pray that amongst this chaos DH and I finally get our happy ending. I have one test left in the house, part of me wants to put myself out of my misery but I know if it's negative I'll completely fall apart and I can't afford that as have a huge week at work. AIBU to think it's finally my turn?

OP posts:
Gallacia · 06/05/2020 14:11

I hope it's your turn xxx

Gallacia · 06/05/2020 14:12

I'm sorry OP

Inthepurplerain · 06/05/2020 16:17

I’m sorry op.

It’s so cruel that progesterone causes what we know as ‘pregnancy symptoms’ when it can just mean we’re close to our period- I know it’s hard but don’t torture yourself looking out for these signs every month.

I hope you get your bfp soon xx

Racheyg · 06/05/2020 17:36

Sending you love op.

Xx

WobblingMyWigglyBits · 06/05/2020 17:56

So sorry x

twinmum2017 · 06/05/2020 18:21

I had a 52 day cycle once completely out of the blue and I lost count of the number of pregnancy tests I did that cycle.

Im so lucky to have got my miracles eventually, but I remember (and will never forget) the desperation and how utterly unfair it felt. Be kind to yourself.

StCharlotte · 06/05/2020 19:15

I can't offer hope OP but I can offer all the sympathy in the world. I've been there and never did get my miracle. Yours may still happen.

I know how cruel it is. I know how unfair it is. And I could weep for you. ❤

Ohohohwhereyougoing · 06/05/2020 19:28

Oh op, I'm so sorry.

beethecrackon24995 · 07/05/2020 01:36

So sorry op Flowers

Ifeelinclined · 07/05/2020 01:50

Oh, OP. I'm so sorry. The disappointment of another negative test is heartbreaking. I'm in the same boat as you, minus the IVF. But I've had several IUI's that failed and it's devastating. We just moved, and needed a break from the fertility treatment, so we haven't moved onto IVF yet. I wish I had an answer as to why we are having so much trouble. No advice, but please be gentle to yourself. Infertility is soul crushing. Thanks

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