To feel really hopeful this month .....

[Isobored]

After years of heartbreaking infertility with no known cause and multiple rounds of failed IVF. My period is 6 days late, I have dull cramp but nothing like it normally is. AIBU to wish/hope/pray that amongst this chaos DH and I finally get our happy ending. I have one test left in the house, part of me wants to put myself out of my misery but I know if it's negative I'll completely fall apart and I can't afford that as have a huge week at work. AIBU to think it's finally my turn?

I am so sorry OP truly. Fertility can be incredibly cruel.

I am so sorry OP.

I’m so sorry

I don’t want to get your hopes up again but I was around 8-10 days late when I got my very faint negative. My AF was normally like clockwork & had the same light cramping for days but kept getting a negative test.

I just feels beyond cruel.

So so sorry OP. Can't imagine how heartbreaking this must be. Xxx

Really sorry OP. Sometimes life is shit and so cruel. Take care of yourself and each other. x

Op sending hugs.

I had many years of struggles, same as you describe.

I would echo @Lolxx though.

I never respond well to tests, especially late in the day.

Dd appeared after we gave up hope, and I did not get a positive till first morning urine about day eight.

You say it was the last test in the house, was it current.

I'm so so sorry for you, happy to pm you if you want to rant at someone.

I’m so sorry OP - infertility is so cruel, and I feel so much for you.

@Isobored, come to meet us in the toot toot may bus thread, we are a supporting bunch, also very funny, we'll pick you up.

It's just not fair. A big hug from me xx

I'm so sorry. Infertility is so hard and so unfair. Take good care of yourself

Fingers crossed for you. I’m no where near in your situation, but I understand how pain infertility is. Lots of love & good luck xxx

So sorry OP. Sending love and hugs x

Oh no so sorry OP
No words can make this better, infertility is so damn cruel.

I'm so sorry to read this OP. Life really is cruel

Oh OP my heart breaks for you. I am so sorry

Sorry to hear it was negative

Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear it OP 😥

Boobs are sore, I have heart burn and cramp. Not loving my life right now feeling very cheated

Take another test op

OP, I don’t want to get your hopes up but I used to volunteer at a woman’s centre doing pregnancy tests.

It could be that it’s very early and your HGC levels are too low to pick up.

False positives are rare (in fact I’ve never come across one) but false negatives are really quite common.

My period was late this month by 4 days due to stress I think (I’ve not been near a man in 6 years lol). I know other women are experiencing similar mainly due to syncing or unsyncing with other women in the house/work colleagues and stress due to lockdown.

We don’t need these answers as it’s personal information but ask yourself, did you have ovulation symptoms this month? If so when? And did you have sex within a week of that time?

I knew I’d be late this month because I didn’t ovulate when I should have, if at all.

I'm so so sorry OP. Hope is such an overpowering feeling. Our bodies can be so vicious sometimes. Giving you a big virtual hug.

It feels beyond cruel because it is. I'm hoping for a miracle for you if not this month than some month soon.

So sorry OP xx