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For parent to call their child sexy?

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theemptywinebox · 02/05/2020 20:56

Saw one mother post about their 'sexy little man'?
One year old doing a pose.
Personally I just think it's weird.
AIBU to think calling your child sexy is weird??

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Fluffybutter · 03/05/2020 12:52

It’s gross and makes me want to gag

Cherryblossomsnow · 03/05/2020 12:54

Really yuck. I also can't stand it when people refer to stuff as being 'sexy' in the workplace - like "that piece of work will be really sexy"Confused.

I find it a really embarrassing word for people to use out of context in any way.

zscaler · 03/05/2020 13:08

Yanbu that’s repulsive.

lachy · 03/05/2020 13:18

YANBU.

Children are not sexy, nor are they supposed to be. They should be able to have an innocent childhood ffs.

CustardySergeant · 03/05/2020 13:22

"I think I'd be tempted to reply "Who do you think would find him sexy? " in a quiet, puzzled voice."

Since she's the one who used the word, surely you can only conclude it's MIL who finds him sexy, (YUK) so I would ask her "Why do you find him sexy, MIL?" or "What is sexy about him, MIL"?

CustardySergeant · 03/05/2020 13:25

"A guy I used to know ages ago use to get his toddler son to raise his fingers in a V symbol and lick between them. Yep."

That's one of the most shocking and disgusting things I've ever read. What a perverted thing to do. It's worrying to be reminded that people like that exist.

Midsommar · 03/05/2020 22:50

@CustardySergeant yep, it was awful. It was an ex-boyfriend's stepbrother or something like that; I wasn't in a position at the time to say anything against this. I just looked away and pretended to ignore how disgusting it was.

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