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Husband Watching porn during day

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Ladybop · 21/04/2020 11:52

OK so I just want to know if I'm over reacting here....
I walked into the loo yesterday whilst my DH was masturbating to porn. Now I don't have an issue with porn, but I have an issue with doing that at 1pm with our kids up and running around. There's a time and a place and feel like he could of refrained from doing that until later...
Am I being an utter dick or am I justified?

OP posts:
Boireannachlaidir · 21/04/2020 16:38

The thread isn't about a locked bathroom though is it? Because that would be okay and DP knocking one out to an innocuous thing such as porn and hey we're all visual anyway and can think for ourselves etc etc and life would be just perfect. Nothing to see here.

Lockheart · 21/04/2020 16:43

I think everyone has said he should have locked the door, @Boireannachlaidir.

After that, assuming whatever he's doing doesn't mean he's hogging the bathroom for an unreasonable time or avoiding looking after the children, then yes it would be ok.

forsucksfake · 21/04/2020 16:43

Get rid. Ugh.

forsucksfake · 21/04/2020 16:57

To clarify, he sounds like pornsickness has seriously compromised his judgement. Why is he insisting that there was anything normal about his behaviour in the middle of the day when any of his kids could have walked in on him. He is really not well, OP. I couldn't live with that.

BuddingBuddy · 21/04/2020 17:08

The only thing that would bother me is that the door was unlocked.

ive definitely not sneaked off for a bath before and left DH with the kids for some 'me time', what a shit mum

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