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Do you have a bullshit job?

194 replies

bogrl · 19/04/2020 20:31

On zoom earlier with some friends and were having this discussion about what constitutes a 'bullshit job' (ie one that doesn't really matter in the great scheme of life.

Given the current circumstances and how life has really been pulled into focus we were thinking about what we contribute.

I was being smug as a teacher and then when I thought about it, all I really do is prepare kids for bullshit jobs!

We basically ended up with saying we need to live in small communities where everyone works for the good of that community with no travel - essentially going back hundreds of years. No bullshit jobs and living off the land.

Do you have a bullshit job? Has all this made you look at things differently?

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1066vegan · 19/04/2020 22:26

@ Wewearpinkonwednesdays Childminding is the absolutely antithesis of a bullshit job.

greytminds · 19/04/2020 22:26

My job is definitely a bullshit job. The overall vision and purpose of what I do isn’t bullshit but the minutiae and bureaucracy that surrounds it absolutely is. I regularly get the feeling of wanting to shout “what the fuck is the point??!!” during tedious meetings. I struggle to give up the good salary, so I persevere!

I often wish I was doing something tangible, that impacted individual people, like a clinical role, or that I had the gumption to write something that people would want to read.

GrumpyHoonMain · 19/04/2020 22:26

I have a job that helps people (and the police) in an industry which isn’t known for it.

Crispyturtle · 19/04/2020 22:27

I had a bullshit job. I felt like I just moved paper around for eight hours a day, five days a week, and no-one would really notice if I wasn’t there. I left and retrained for a non-bullshit job which I love so much. Best thing I ever did, after having kids.

Nearlyalmost50 · 19/04/2020 22:27

I feel like other people think I have a bullshit job. I'm a childminder

This is not a bullshit job!

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 19/04/2020 22:29

And then we all go an man the Golgafrincham Arc B

longcoffee · 19/04/2020 22:30

I'm in marketing, my entire career is built on the perfection of bullshit 👌

Jeaniealogy · 19/04/2020 22:32

Non clinical job in mental health working with children, adults and the elderly in care homes. I've worked in mental health for 2 decades and I'm dreading what's coming

BanginChoons · 19/04/2020 22:32

Midwife. Not bullshit, but there is a lot of bullshit paperwork.

Jeaniealogy · 19/04/2020 22:35

Meant to add, it's not a bullshit job but my job wouldn't exist/ be required if mental health and social care was properly funded and the staff had the time and resources to do their jobs properly

Thisisworsethananticpated · 19/04/2020 22:35

Ticklemelmo

Flowers I salute you for the honesty of
How bullshit your job is

Lockdown has made me realise that IF I lost
My job I could thrive in a less paid and more
Meaningful job

It’s always annoyed me though

Even now in this crisis we have a bulkshit project going on

Taking data from one platform and putting it on another

WHY Angry

bogrl · 19/04/2020 22:37

@Prokupatuscrakedatus

Grin
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malificent7 · 19/04/2020 22:37

Im traing ti so a meaningful job for the NHS. Tbh after this i wish that i had a bullshit job where i could make lots of cash.

malificent7 · 19/04/2020 22:38

Traing to do even...

Wewearpinkonwednesdays · 19/04/2020 22:38

@Nearlyalmost50 thank you. I got a wee lump in my throat when you said that 😂.

malificent7 · 19/04/2020 22:38

Training even!!

RUOKHon · 19/04/2020 22:44

Yes I realised I had a bullshit job at the end of last year. I kind of always knew it was bullshit but it got to the point where I couldn’t carry on in good conscience any more and I stopped caring enough to make the required effort.

The big trigger for me was that a relative died and she had done some amazing things in her life and was very accomplished. It made me think about what would people say about me and my life’s contribution if it were my funeral. I realised that I didn’t want: “She half-heartedly worked in an industry that benefited no one except massive, tax-dodging corporations and was a microscopic cog of such insignificance that her contribution, such as it was, is barely worth a mention.”

So I quit. And I applied to uni to retrain in a completely different career that definitely isn’t bullshit and will help me be of service to others.

I want there to be a point to me getting up and going to work all day beyond just making money to pay bills.

Wewearpinkonwednesdays · 19/04/2020 22:46

@1066vegan I'm so glad you think that. I feel like people think I'm at it when I tell them what I do. I feel like they think it's not a "real job".

blueshoes · 19/04/2020 22:48

I don't care if a job is bs so long as it pays well.

As I work in compliance, my job isn't actually bs but has some wider purpose behind it keeping the capitalistic professional services firm I work for on the straight and narrow.

Thisisworsethananticpated · 19/04/2020 22:50

feel like other people think I have a bullshit job. I'm a childminder

No ! You care for peoples kids so they can do a bullshit job Grin

Gemma2019 · 19/04/2020 22:50

Corporate law, so a totally bullshit job by all accounts, but has now become even wankier by being involved in creating a Covid-19 Resource Centre and Business Toolkit for worried clients. Unfortunately it's well paid bullshit so I'm stuck with it for now.

DellAmorenonsisa · 19/04/2020 22:51

Yes, I am from a large family. Those of us with ‘bullshit jobs’ are essentially the high earners in secure jobs and working safely from home. The other half are in food production, health care, post office and are all out working and being paid less to do so. It’s an eye opener.

I know obviously bullshit jobs also fulfil a purpose but it’s an interesting parallel.

hammeringinmyhead · 19/04/2020 22:52

I did have - until recently I was a retail merchandiser (as in buying, not store layouts). I want to do something non-bullshit 3 days a week but I fear I'm asking for the moon on a stick.

Devlesko · 19/04/2020 22:57

I don't have a job at the moment, and your scenario sounds like heaven to me.
Although I'm working night and day to be ready for when our work will return.
Can I take this opportunity to hijack to say find your local Arts Centres and support them, there's lots to see, and the acts could do with the viewings. It might even earn them a bob or two.
We recorded one for ours last week.
I will be selling phones and ipads in a call centre, once I can attend the interview.
There are West End singers working in Tesco, they have bills too.
I don't quite think one fully understood the role when stating "I'll be singing and dancing in the Aisles. But what a hell of an attitude to getting stuck in.

Wewearpinkonwednesdays · 19/04/2020 23:02

@Thisisworsethananticpated 😂 in all honesty, a lot of my parents tell me what they do and it goes 🤯 I have no idea what they do. I just presume it must be very important.

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