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Are you still letting your DC play out with neighbours kids?

232 replies

LegoBloodyHurts · 14/04/2020 15:09

Are you still letting your kids play out with neighbours kids? Seems to be in my neighbourhood the kids are carrying on as normal, and out on the streets together. Mine are home as I won’t allow it.

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UpAndGoing · 14/04/2020 17:14

No way. We saw kids playing today and were shocked. The virus won't stop if the kids keep playing with neighbours and friends. (They are the biggest spreaders)

cabbageking · 14/04/2020 17:21

No.

Same as I wouldn't allow them to play on the edge of a cliff, on a railway track or juggle with grenades.

Echobelly · 14/04/2020 17:23

I live in London so they never did that in the first place!

Echobelly · 14/04/2020 17:23

NB, I'd like them to have been doing that, but no one else is willing to let their kids out.

UserDeleted · 14/04/2020 17:24

Nope.

And the Scary Woman who normally lets her 4 run riot (they steal, vandalise, swear, etc) has kept hers in. Thank fuck.

Though my other neighbours are having their grandchildren over half the week and they are left to roam the area for hours. One is 3! And she was at my gate begging to come in a few days ago. They aren't playing with other children and no other children are out! The are also riding round our square with a fucking quad bike. With a 5 year old solo on it. They did finally get him a helmet after a week.

And yes, my judgy pants ARE hoiked up high!

Greenpop21 · 14/04/2020 17:24

No kids out here unless with parents.

Bubblebu · 14/04/2020 17:32

"They're talking across the gardens but that's it"

Do not let them talk across the gardens. It is irresponsible and selfish and will spread the virus.

Your children need to stay in the house at all times: all times.

Ontheboardwalk · 14/04/2020 17:33

Davespecifio i am tempted to report her, will they actually do anything? Will they have the resources to do anything?

Me and others are working from home and finding it really difficult with screaming kids in the road. I’m the other end of the street, I really feel for the people that live near her

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 14/04/2020 17:34

We've seen quite a few children wandering around. We can't even see over the neighbours fence so dont have the problem of them all being able to see each other etc

managedmis · 14/04/2020 17:34

Yes - closely supervised and told to keep a distance

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 14/04/2020 17:36

Why can't the talk across gardens , ours are huge, I can chat to the neighbours and be far further away than 2 m , I'm sure lots of people are the same

HoffiCoffi13 · 14/04/2020 17:36

managedmis which of the 4 reasons to leave the house as set out by the government do you feel it falls under?

Abraid2 · 14/04/2020 17:40

Your children need to stay in the house at all times: all times.

They’re allowed in their own garden!

Blondeshavemorefun · 14/04/2020 17:40

Report them

Bubblebu · 14/04/2020 17:45

I would report to the police anyone I saw speaking across garden fences / walls - or actually speaking in even distancing in the road as I am sure all mumsnetters would also do. Mumsnet will endorse this.

Chloemol · 14/04/2020 17:50

No

MamaBearLockdown · 14/04/2020 17:52

What's the point of closing school, and any social distancing, if kids still play together?

Home42 · 14/04/2020 17:52

Totally NO

Amotherof6 · 14/04/2020 17:53

No of course not.

You know due to the Covid-19 and not mixing of households - it's been all over the news you know! Perhaps your neighbourhood don't watch the news/don't have Covid-19 (yet) or are just a bit too thick to follow simple guidelines to keep the vulnerable in society safe

stardance · 14/04/2020 17:57

Nope I wouldn't even let mine out to play alone/ with each other. I can't expect or trust them or anyone else they might come across to practice social distancing.

If they leave the house and garden, I'm with them.

TiredofSM · 14/04/2020 17:58

@Ostagazuzulum I’d report them without a second thought.
You can do it anonymously.

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 14/04/2020 17:58

@Bubblebu I'm assuming you are taking the piss there

lyralalala · 14/04/2020 18:11

No. They are playing “together” in that they’re playing walkie-talkie bingo (when lockdown first came in one of the guys in the street loaned each house a radio from his business for the kids) and ‘when I go on holiday i take...’ by the same method.

There’s a bit of a rota going for playing in the street for the houses that don’t have a garden and that occasionally turns into them drawing with chalk and the other kids shouting guesses over the radios

Pickles89 · 14/04/2020 18:17

My next door neighbour is having another child over to play with hers every day. It's making me grind my teeth!

Crimsonnightlotus · 14/04/2020 18:20

No, I wouldn't. And I don't see any other children playing either.

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