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AIBU?

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To not have a takeaway, roast dinner or dry up every week?

329 replies

Peanutbutterismyjam · 11/04/2020 11:39

I was talking to a good friend yesterday about Easter, especially with the current situation. She mentioned that she's gutted she can't have her usual lamb roast dinner this Easter. I said we had a dinner last weekend so doubt we'd have one for Easter. Conversation then extended into roast dinners every week come hell or high water, weekend takeaways and fry ups, etc.

She has a takeaway every Friday, cooked breakfast every Saturday and a roast dinner every single Sunday, even during a heatwave. Her family have been this way since she moved in with her partner. They now have two boys 9 and 7. Neither particularly enjoy a dinner but will eat meat and Yorkshires with gravy. They can afford a takeaway most weeks but aren't loaded. It works for them.

We, however, rarely eat these things. I don't enjoy greasy food first thing in the morning, it repeats on me. I will have eggs on toast occasionally. Takeaways are for days like Mother's/Father's Day, rare night off, celebrations. I like a dinner but not every week. I find it a huge faff, a good couple hours of cooking, lots of washing up, and all eaten in no time at all. I'd honestly rather have pasta for a quick/easy/lazy meal. To add, my children are still small. My 3 year old has a restricted diet (ASD) and doesn't touch meat or veg, the baby will. Neither like pancakes, despite a few attempts, I won't give them takeaways yet due to salt content. They will however, happily wolf down homemade pizzas, and peanut butter on toast instead of a fry up.

Light-hearted conversation but she was fascinated with the that we won't be having a roast dinner tomorrow. We are having roast chicken, homemade flatbreads, tzatziki, and, Greek salad with feta.

So, AIBU to not have takeaway, cooked breakfast or a roast dinner every week? Do any of you? Just curious.

OP posts:
shineaflight · 11/04/2020 13:27

I didn't include cooking times 😂😂

Haha, that made me chuckle. Funnily enough once it's in the oven I'm free to go about my day until it's ready

MamaBearLockdown · 11/04/2020 13:27

I don't know why people make such a fuss about cooking roast meat.

to be fair, most of us are generally not at home at the weekend, or for a very short period of time, so preparing, cooking, eating and cleaning for a whole roast dinner sounds way too much faff when you could be doing something else.

Now that we are stuck home, I might start making them .

shineaflight · 11/04/2020 13:28

Do you honestly just sit and watch it cooking? Grin

shineaflight · 11/04/2020 13:28

@MamaBearLockdown good luck getting flour for your yorkies

PurpleDaisies · 11/04/2020 13:29

No, of course not but I think you’re being a bit disingenuous to say your roast dinner takes less than 35 minutes when that doesn’t include the time in the oven. At the end of 35 minutes (or sooner), you have flatbreads ready to eat.

Oysterbabe · 11/04/2020 13:30

I'm cooking beef brisket tomorrow because the shop didn't have any lamb left. I'll have it with loads of mustard, Yorkshire pudding, roast potatoes and parsnips, carrots, broccoli, cabbage and a really rich gravy. I normally cook chicken or pork as it's cheap but thought I'd splash out a bit for Easter.

MangePasTesOnglesVilain · 11/04/2020 13:31

Omg

I honestly literally never knew that there were actually people who didn't eat a roast dinner every Sunday.

I am genuinely so shocked I don't know what to say. ShockShock

Also I like a curry, but they don't like me,,,Wink

Oysterbabe · 11/04/2020 13:31

good luck getting flour for your yorkies

They had absolutely piles of it in Lidl yesterday but that's the first time I've seen it in 3 weeks.

Fizzypoo · 11/04/2020 13:31

We have a roast most Sundays. I rarely cook them, DP likes doing them.

We have a boring routine like your friend, we go out to eat fridays, I cook something properly on Saturdays or we have a takeaway if we've been out all day then a roast on Sundays.

When my DC were little and I was a SP I didnt bother with roasts, we started it when dp moved in and try to play board games or cards after as a cringy bonding day

AntiHop · 11/04/2020 13:32

Each to their own.

shineaflight · 11/04/2020 13:32

But OP is roasting a chicken to go with her flatbreads 🤣

Sorry. This thread is killing me. I think the lockdown madness is setting in.

I was referring to time in the kitchen. The flatbread recipe is 35 minutes and you are there cooking the whole time. It takes me a hell of a lot less time to prepare a roast, minus cooking time obviously.

A roast dinner isn't hard work was my point

meonekton · 11/04/2020 13:34

It's really weird some people cares so much about what others do.

GabsAlot · 11/04/2020 13:34

we dont have roast every week never did growing up

some do some dont

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FrivolousPancake · 11/04/2020 13:36

Your friend is a big fat greasy pig OP.

YANBU and you sound like a wonderful cook living a healthy lifestyle and an all round great person.

shineaflight · 11/04/2020 13:36

Whoa. That escalated Shock

thebridgelooksbroken · 11/04/2020 13:36

Was your friend really fascinated that you wouldn't be having a roast tomorrow? I wonder how she will react when she finds out you are in fact having a roast chicken? She might die from the excitement.

FinallyHere · 11/04/2020 13:38

TL;DR

People chose their meals based on a mixture of habit, what they enjoy cooking and what they enjoy eating.

squeekums · 11/04/2020 13:39

I think people are too lazy nowadays
That's nice, I'm rather happy with my level of lazy.
Cooking bores me, by time it's ready I'm that sick of looking at it I've lost my appetite. Plus I hate the clean up
I even buy my chooks whole, roasted hot, ready to go, haven't cooked a whole chook in years now.

The convienence of takeaway is worth the cost to me

ButteryPuffin · 11/04/2020 13:40

There's this thing called 'personal choice', OP, where people have their own likes and dislikes that may differ from those of other people..

Ponoka7 · 11/04/2020 13:40

What she is having was traditional. I did the same until i started camping, which meant a fry up but no full dinners. I wouldn't want to be bound to doing the same thing because of food.

My DD has had Covid and is just getting her appetite back, so a fried breakfast is saved for Easter Monday (as it is on Christmas etc) and we didn't plan on a roast.

Lamb represents the lamb of God, aka Jesus.
I saw on yesterday that the chippy queues were round the block, people getting their Good Friday Fish.

Gigabitten · 11/04/2020 13:41

Wow, this thread took an ugly turn.

0blio · 11/04/2020 13:41

I love roast dinners and would have them more often if I could afford it.

To me, pasta is nursery food and I can't understand why you would prefer it to meat and vegetables. But that's just my opinion and taste - people like different things.

WhatWouldYouDoWhatWouldJesusDo · 11/04/2020 13:41

Roast dinners arent a faff. You need to work on unfaffing 😂😂😂

Isawthathaggis · 11/04/2020 13:42

‘It repeats on me’
Is very descriptive- makes me think of a very old women, no teeth, unwashed, long dirty fingernails on thin pointy hands smells of old cabbage. Bit of spit as she talks.

Grim.

Perhaps ‘doesn’t agree with me’ is less, well, less.
But I also can’t sit next to people who eat with their mouth open. Or, even before our current predicament, wash their hands.

I willing to accept the fault is mine Grin