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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To not have a takeaway, roast dinner or dry up every week?

329 replies

Peanutbutterismyjam · 11/04/2020 11:39

I was talking to a good friend yesterday about Easter, especially with the current situation. She mentioned that she's gutted she can't have her usual lamb roast dinner this Easter. I said we had a dinner last weekend so doubt we'd have one for Easter. Conversation then extended into roast dinners every week come hell or high water, weekend takeaways and fry ups, etc.

She has a takeaway every Friday, cooked breakfast every Saturday and a roast dinner every single Sunday, even during a heatwave. Her family have been this way since she moved in with her partner. They now have two boys 9 and 7. Neither particularly enjoy a dinner but will eat meat and Yorkshires with gravy. They can afford a takeaway most weeks but aren't loaded. It works for them.

We, however, rarely eat these things. I don't enjoy greasy food first thing in the morning, it repeats on me. I will have eggs on toast occasionally. Takeaways are for days like Mother's/Father's Day, rare night off, celebrations. I like a dinner but not every week. I find it a huge faff, a good couple hours of cooking, lots of washing up, and all eaten in no time at all. I'd honestly rather have pasta for a quick/easy/lazy meal. To add, my children are still small. My 3 year old has a restricted diet (ASD) and doesn't touch meat or veg, the baby will. Neither like pancakes, despite a few attempts, I won't give them takeaways yet due to salt content. They will however, happily wolf down homemade pizzas, and peanut butter on toast instead of a fry up.

Light-hearted conversation but she was fascinated with the that we won't be having a roast dinner tomorrow. We are having roast chicken, homemade flatbreads, tzatziki, and, Greek salad with feta.

So, AIBU to not have takeaway, cooked breakfast or a roast dinner every week? Do any of you? Just curious.

OP posts:
Duckingell · 11/04/2020 12:26

People can eat how and what they want.

Last night we had cava and crisps for dinner Grin

GrumpyHoonMain · 11/04/2020 12:28

Homemade flatbreads take longer to prepare and are messier than a roast dinner.

Rolling roti dough for 30 rotis takes 10mins including standing time. Rolling them into 30 balls takes 5 mins. Rolling them out into circles and cooking them takes a minute per roti. So I can get them all done in approx 45 mins and I am slow (dyspraxia and dyslexia). Mum and Dsis can do it all within 20mins.

FortunesFave · 11/04/2020 12:28

I should have posted here but I started a new thread about how people cook their cabbage if they have it with roast dinners.

Can you share your cabbage cooking methods please? (derail)

Anoisagusaris · 11/04/2020 12:28

You literally just said you are having a roast chicken 🤣🤣

WorraLiberty · 11/04/2020 12:28

She has a takeaway every Friday, cooked breakfast every Saturday and a roast dinner every single Sunday, even during a heatwave.

Same here except we don't eat breakfast so the fry up is for lunch.

It's almost as though different people like different things, isn't it?

macaroniandpizza · 11/04/2020 12:29

roast chicken... clue is in the name...

turnandfacethenamechange · 11/04/2020 12:29

Well I suppose we do clap for anything these days so why not?

LOL Grin

PurpleDaisies · 11/04/2020 12:31

@FortunesFave for me it depends on the cabbage.

Red cabbage slow cooked with wine and spices. Green cabbage usually stir fried in butter. White cabbage steamed. I also like of these like it raw in coleslaw.

Cabbage is great in curries and stir fries.

Luckingfovely · 11/04/2020 12:31

Oh for god's sake - you clearly have far too much time on your hands.

Stop Judging Other People.

Perhaps a hobby might help?

Wewearpinkonwednesdays · 11/04/2020 12:32

I just had a big fry up. We will have a lamb roast tomorrow. Hasn't crossed my mind to ask my friends what they eat every week Confused

PurpleDaisies · 11/04/2020 12:32

Oh for god's sake - you clearly have far too much time on your hands.

Don’t we all?!

Op get this moved to chat, probably where it should have gone in the first place.

Imstillskanking · 11/04/2020 12:33

I know you've said lighthearted, but be prepared for lots of anger and stern judgement. People on here are crazy sometimes Confused

Anyway, I get where you're coming from but you've mentioned in particular about a roast dinner being a faff, and in my house it isn't. I rarely do them now because i live near the equator, but when we lived in the UK and it was bloody freezing half the time i would do a roast most weekends. Warmed our cold house up very nicely. It wasn't a faff because I was used to it. You make the same meal enough times and it becomes second nature. I could throw the whole thing together with minimal washing up, clean up as I go, not much thought given to timings and temperatures etc because I'd done it so many times before, I'm very comfortable with it and I don't make a mess. In a lot of ways I find a roast easier than other meals because once you've prepared everything and set your phone timers the oven does most of the work. You just have to remember to take stuff out when the timers go off, and then when the meat is resting you throw your gravy together. Roast dinner complete. Once it's all cooking I sit on my fat bum watching telly and drinking beer. It's very easy. As a bonus you get loads of leftovers for other meals through the week, so it's like you're cooking for a few days in one go.

koshkatt · 11/04/2020 12:33

Last night we had cava and crisps for dinner

Now this is my kind of supper!

JellyfishandShells · 11/04/2020 12:33

Your friend has a routine for 3 meals out of 21 in a week.

A Friday takeaway, a Saturday breakfast and a Sunday lunch. Unless every other meal is also set in stone to the point of monotony, or is heavy and/or nutritionally unbalanced as a whole, then I don’t quite see what the problem is with them having things that they look forward to at the weekend. You said yourself ‘ it works for them ‘ .

I0NA · 11/04/2020 12:34

@Peanutbutterismyjam

You eat pasta, pizza, toast and flat breads!! Don’t you feel ill with all these carbs?

I had a piece of toast once in 2012 and I’m still bloated.

And aren’t you worried about the high level of salt in most peanut butters - 17mg in every 100g?

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 11/04/2020 12:35

This board is going to implode, it's so full of spite... and then what will some of you vent your spleens about?

OP... your menu sounds nice to me; my husband would prefer your sister's. I discovered a new thing yesterday, green beans, coated in sour cream and chive dip (Aldi's, it's lovely) - with lightly dusted lemon and parsley sole fillets (Aldi's again). It's going to be a staple in this house.

Bon appetit everybody, however your menu looks.

Imstillskanking · 11/04/2020 12:36

YABU to use the phrase ‘it repeats on me’. It’s particularly unpleasant and makes you sound about 80 and dirty.

What? Seriously?

Lynda07 · 11/04/2020 12:36

Nothing to stop you cooking a roast dinner if you want one. It's a question of planning a bit in advance, for example getting a delivery slot in time. I'm on my own so will be having two lamb chops with all trimmings, yum, but could have bought a joint.

There are also plenty of places that will deliver a proper, home cooked roast dinner at the moment (not the microwave kind, a real one).

Bon appetit!

SoupDragon · 11/04/2020 12:37

🤔

Washyourhandsyoufilthyanimal · 11/04/2020 12:37

YABU for this weird couture signaling thread

koshkatt · 11/04/2020 12:37

YABU to use the phrase ‘it repeats on me’. It’s particularly unpleasant and makes you sound about 80 and dirty

Yep. This is an actual comment made by an actual person! Grin

Washyourhandsyoufilthyanimal · 11/04/2020 12:38

Virtue*

Gigabitten · 11/04/2020 12:38

green beans, coated in sour cream and chive dip

Oh thank you. I'm trying to get DS to eat more vegetable, he may like this.

I've had a small win in that he'll eat green beans but they have to be tinned - guess what I can't get hold of now.

WorraLiberty · 11/04/2020 12:39

This board is going to implode, it's so full of spite...and then what will some of you vent your spleens about?

Brexit again? Grin Grin

MysweetAudrina · 11/04/2020 12:41

We had take away Thursday, I cooked a bug fry up this morning and brought dh and the kids theirs in bed as a treat. Full legnof lamb in the fridge for tomorrow. Am I doing something wrong?