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The clapping, please make it stop.

546 replies

orangejuicer · 09/04/2020 20:02

Is it just every week we are in lockdown or is that it forever and we have become a nation of clappers? Do I need to move?

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Smellbellina · 10/04/2020 15:30

It must be a bit dependent on the circles you move, I just don’t know people who post images/videos of themselves clapping on SM and I haven’t come across anyone ‘shaming’ people. Well, apart from on here where people seem to be virtue signalling themselves about NOT doing it as they are doing all the things you SHOULD be doing instead blah, blah etc.

phoenixrosehere · 10/04/2020 15:33

It's just easy to blame the Tory party, rather than recognising that Labour would have made a lot more damages and destroy the economy entirely!

Would.. Really and what else did you see in your crystal ball of alternate reality?

Not a supporter of either party, but you don’t know that and how would you know for sure since the Tories have been in power for the past decade?

Lunaballoon · 10/04/2020 15:35

Holybumoley - you think Florence’s comment about deaths of NHS workers and bus drivers is mawkish do you? What planet are you on? Angry

HolyBumoley · 10/04/2020 16:37

It's the way Florence puts it, Luna. "Bus drivers are giving their lives", as if they were WWI soldiers.

They're not "giving their lives" in my neck of the woods. They are running a Sunday service of completely empty buses, as the huge majority of people where I live (98 percent, apparently) are staying at home and not catching buses. Frontline NHS staff are, obviously, risking catching Covid. However, it's an unpleasant fact that if you work in a hospital, you might see or catch something horrible. Covid is an extreme part of what you're signing up for, and doesn't demand sentimental outpourings from other people.

(Lest anyone think I've had the temerity to step outside my own house to scrutinise empty buses: I there is a bus stop right outside my kitchen window, and there's nothing much for me to do other than hang around the kitchen at the moment. So I get quite a good view of empty buses).

HelpPleaseNoHateNeeded · 10/04/2020 17:03

I'm a paramedic in a country where there is no clapping. I've seen it on friends' Facebook pages though and it gave me a little lump in my throat, it looks caring and community spirited.

Not that I particularly want or need it, but it would be far nicer to be clapped for than spat at and deliberately coughed on in these times (although at least now, the horrors doing this are receiving criminal charges and huge fines).

mbosnz · 10/04/2020 17:08

@HelpPleaseNoHateNeeded

I don't know how to do a clapping emoji, but I'll raise a Wine to you. What you are doing is so necessary, and you are showing so much courage and selflessness doing it. I don't know what country you're in, but thank you. Because the world is united in this fight, and your courage and sacrifice gives to all.

And if anyone thinks I'm being mawkish, they can fuck right off.

RedHelenB · 10/04/2020 17:38

@HelpPleaseNoHateNeeded

Here's a clap for yesterday and next week I'll be including all the frontline health workers in all countries when I clap on Thursday. Take good care of yourself.

Theworldisfullofgs · 10/04/2020 17:41

I live in a village. No one does it here.

Instead we keep a distance when we walk our dogs and wash our hands. Our local hospital is tiny and no one wants to make it worse.

Florencemattell · 10/04/2020 17:43

Wow @HolyBumoley
14 bus drivers have died in London. Young men in some cases eg early 30s.
So yes they have given their lives by driving the buses.
I’m not sure how many nurses and doctors have died but it a lot.
I don’t object to the clapping if it’s a quick 5 minutes affair and maybe every week it looses it significance.
It’s the people who are taking the opportunity to have a ‘street party’ who irritate me.

HelpPleaseNoHateNeeded · 10/04/2020 18:46

Thank you mbos and RedHelen. Means a lot. ThanksWine

liverbird10 · 10/04/2020 18:56

Miserable bunch.

mbosnz · 10/04/2020 19:28

@HelpPleaseNoHateNeeded

And if we clap again next week, I'll be clapping for you too. And every week thereafter.

Stay safe, sane and well.

Kia Kaha (keep strong). Flowers

Greenpop21 · 10/04/2020 19:31

@Theworldisfullofgs you can do both you know.

Macncheeseballs · 10/04/2020 19:49

Chief nursing officer, ruth may, seems to be pretty appreciative according to what she said at the government press conference today. Maybe she's lying

Theworldisfullofgs · 10/04/2020 20:45

I don't think it makes a difference. I think it is a diversion to talking about the lack of PPE.

PennyMissilesAndWombPies · 11/04/2020 09:04

Please remember that there are practical ways you can help the NHS: sew scrubs or clinical hats or if you don't have the skill or room to do so then donate suitable fabric to those that can. www.cpft.nhs.uk/Latest-news/Trust-launches-appeal-for-scrubs-for-frontline-staff.htm

In the meantime I'll leave this here:
". Of course, everyone stood up (just as everyone had leaped to his feet during the conference at every mention of his name). ... For three minutes, four minutes, five minutes, the stormy applause, rising to an ovation, continued. But palms were getting sore and raised arms were already aching. And the older people were panting from exhaustion. It was becoming insufferably silly even to those who really adored Stalin.
However, who would dare to be the first to stop? … After all, NKVD men were standing in the hall applauding and watching to see who would quit first! And in the obscure, small hall, unknown to the leader, the applause went on – six, seven, eight minutes! They were done for! Their goose was cooked! They couldn’t stop now till they collapsed with heart attacks! At the rear of the hall, which was crowded, they could of course cheat a bit, clap less frequently, less vigorously, not so eagerly – but up there with the presidium where everyone could see them?
The director of the local paper factory, an independent and strong-minded man, stood with the presidium. Aware of all the falsity and all the impossibility of the situation, he still kept on applauding! Nine minutes! Ten! In anguish he watched the secretary of the District Party Committee, but the latter dared not stop. Insanity! To the last man! With make-believe enthusiasm on their faces, looking at each other with faint hope, the district leaders were just going to go on and on applauding till they fell where they stood, till they were carried out of the hall on stretchers! And even then those who were left would not falter…
Then, after eleven minutes, the director of the paper factory assumed a businesslike expression and sat down in his seat. And, oh, a miracle took place! Where had the universal, uninhibited, indescribable enthusiasm gone? To a man, everyone else stopped dead and sat down. They had been saved!
The squirrel had been smart enough to jump off his revolving wheel. That, however, was how they discovered who the independent people were. And that was how they went about eliminating them. That same night the factory director was arrested. They easily pasted ten years on him on the pretext of something quite different. But after he had signed Form 206, the final document of the interrogation, his interrogator reminded him:
“Don’t ever be the first to stop applauding.” "
The Gulag Archipelago by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

Don't forget: your neighbours are watching you!

sleepingpup · 11/04/2020 09:10

Please remember you can do practical things for the NHS .... And Clap.Hmm

makingmammaries · 11/04/2020 20:31

Come to my part of France, nobody does it here.

Ells4eva · 09/01/2021 09:11

I agree nhs workers asked people to stop so why is it starting again?

StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes · 09/01/2021 10:09

This thread is from April!

MLMsuperfan · 09/01/2021 11:29

It was just as ridiculous then as it is now.

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