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Please don't put a rainbow in your window!

999 replies

RuffleCrow · 23/03/2020 12:28

For the past few years the rainbow has sadly becomea symbol of silencing, sexual stereotyping and oppression for a lot of women and those in the LGB community. If you're thinking of putting one up, please think about how that may make women feel - many of whom have already experienced death threats and lost their friends and jobs thanks to those who wield the rainbow flag as a weapon.

I just saw two on my walk just now and it made me feel like shit. Not the intended effect I'm sure. Please consider something else: the sun coming out from a cloud, or a simple landscape. Thanks.

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bbpet · 24/03/2020 01:45

Get a life.

OccasionalKite · 24/03/2020 01:47

And by putting rainbows in your windows, you are now making yourselves vulnerable to men who will look at your rainbows and spot a naive person, and turn up at your doors, asking if they can do anything to help you, in this time of crisis.

Shudder.

Don't put rainbows in your windows. Keep yourself and your child/children safe from exploitation in times of crisis.

Worried234 · 24/03/2020 01:48

Grow up and get a grip.

Tinkerbell456 · 24/03/2020 01:51

Sometimes, a rainbow is just a rainbow. No one owns them.

gokartdillydilly · 24/03/2020 01:54

Fuck sake! It's for little children to get some joy in their little lives right now. Sorry OP, but you need to grow up. Life is shit enough for everyone right now without some misappropriation of a symbol of love and hope for... something the opposite, but what exactly

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 24/03/2020 01:58

🤣🤣🤣 yeah men are going to turn up on the doorstep after spotting a rainbow in the window

OccasionalKite · 24/03/2020 02:00

For example, have a read of this Mumsnet thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3145470-Break-it-down-for-me?pg=1

OrangeTwirl · 24/03/2020 02:02

Christ on a bike! Does anyone remember when a rainbow was just a rainbow? A coloured thing in the sky - that is simple for young children to draw?

Get a grip OP! Not everything is about you

Aridane · 24/03/2020 02:04

Yup - read it. Still think children drawing rainbows is fine (along with 92% of voting posters)

Ondalay · 24/03/2020 02:06

I think somebody needs their antipsychotic meds pronto.

OccasionalKite · 24/03/2020 02:08

Hmm. I wonder why men's rights activists seek to co-opt a symbol that is simple for children, eh?

DioneTheDiabolist · 24/03/2020 02:11

So cute pics of rainbows in windows is a sign to child abusers.Shock Like pampas grass for paedos.Confused

IfOnlyOurEyesSawSouls · 24/03/2020 02:11

Ridiculous.

A rainbow has ALWAYS been a sign of hope.

Neome · 24/03/2020 02:11

In our brave new world a rainbow will mean it is raining and sunny at the same time.

OccasionalKite · 24/03/2020 02:14

Every house with a rainbow in a window - in these troubled times - indicates itself as a vulnerable household with children, ripe for exploitation, because of naivety. Be very careful.

HulaHoop2 · 24/03/2020 02:18

This is batshit crazy. There is something very wrong if you are so fragile that a child’s drawing upsets you. Do you seriously expect other people, especially children, to change their behaviour to suit you? To me that is what certain members of the LGBT community do with their insistence that we change the meaning of language and ignore scientific facts in order to validate their identity. These are the very people and the very behaviour you are complaining about! Like them, you are the definition of a snowflake.

FunkyKingston · 24/03/2020 02:18

Every house with a rainbow in a window - in these troubled times - indicates itself as a vulnerable household with children, ripe for exploitation, because of naivety. Be very careful..

Ríiiiiggghhht. If you say so. (Backs slowly away)

OccasionalKite · 24/03/2020 02:22

If you have a good look into the current, 2020, symbolism of the fucking rainbow - it reveals a hatred of women.

The rainbow, in 2020, is a men's rights symbol.

MrFaceyRomford · 24/03/2020 02:23

Sorry, but you don't get to say what I put in my windows.

OccasionalKite · 24/03/2020 02:24

You'll all probably start understanding, in a few months' time!

MrFaceyRomford · 24/03/2020 02:25

The rainbow, in 2020, is a men's rights symbol.

Well, speaking as a man, I never knew that! Where do you get that idea from?

OccasionalKite · 24/03/2020 02:27

Fine, no probs! You carry on displaying a men's rights symbol!

FunkyKingston · 24/03/2020 02:28

You'll all probably start understanding, in a few months' time!

No. You'll still be spouting nonsense and 99.99% of people will walk past a child's drawing.of rainbow and think 'that's nice.'

RonaldMcDonald · 24/03/2020 02:35

The rainbow in 2020 is a Men’s rights symbol seriously wtaf
Only gay bi queer or trans men afaik

Rainbows belong to everyone but also denote that we are allies and friends to all sexuality

OccasionalKite · 24/03/2020 02:37

If anyone wants to out themselves as a happy-clappy who is naive enough to go and endanger their own family - by posting a picture in their window, that they don't even understand the symbolism of it, let alone the danger.... I'm trying to point out the danger to your children, of what you are doing.

If you are at least willing to think about things, then please have a read of:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3145470-Break-it-down-for-me?pg=1