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Tomatoes in cottage pie!?

72 replies

Digitalash · 10/03/2020 20:20

AIBU to think tomatoes dont go in cottage pie? I was horrified when my BF wanted to make cottage pie like bolognese.
Happened to mention it in my small workplace of 7 and 3 of us make it with gravy and 3 of us make it like bolognese! (1 didnt know how to make cottage pie)

This is madness right? I clarified that they make both sauces exactly the same for bolognese and cottage pie and my mind is blown.

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willowpatterns · 10/03/2020 21:20

I have been known to make a chilli con carne style cottage pie.

HeresMe · 10/03/2020 21:21

I'll.say again you don't put fruit on a cottage pie and tomatoes are a fruit.

AriadnesFilament · 10/03/2020 21:22

Heathens

muddledmidget · 10/03/2020 21:23

I put in tinned tomatoes and baked beans, my husband refuses both in his, so we make two cottage pies according to our own family recipes....

slashlover · 10/03/2020 21:23

@Hahaha88

Actually dying at @slashlover taking offense at people criticising other people's recipes like it's a criticism based on race or religion or something actually important and wrong.

I'm sure you're actually dying.

There are currently 2 threads about how someone's BF/DH likes cottage/shepherds pie.

People post frequently AIBU to like this food? The answer is always going to be No, YANBU and nobody else is U to like food they like.

scrappydappydoo · 10/03/2020 21:27

No tomatoes - but I do put a dollop of branstons pickle in!

Strictly1972 · 10/03/2020 21:28

Passatta & stock here. Also lentils to thicken it up. I sort of make it up with whatever I can find at the time

avocadoze · 10/03/2020 21:28

Ye gods. It’s even worse than gravy. Although not as bad as beans, clearly.

ButterbuttSquash · 10/03/2020 21:33

No. I usually use a tablespoon of puree if I have it. That’s it.

pipsqueak77 · 10/03/2020 21:35

Lol I put drained chopped tomatoes in mine. Always a fave at our dinner table too Grin kids love it too! Guess one shoe does not fit everyone!

MrsElf · 10/03/2020 21:36

I can understand baking bolognaise with mash on top, contemplates a polenta version but it’s not a cottage pie. It’s like DH makes a gorgeous spiced shepherd’s pie - and we don’t call it “shepherd’s pie”, because it’s something totally different.

NoraEphronsneck · 10/03/2020 21:40

scrappydappydoo Branston pickle goes in chili-con-carne not cottage pie Grin

Hahaha88 · 10/03/2020 21:48

@slashlover
People post frequently AIBU to like this food? The answer is always going to be No, YANBU and nobody else is U to like food they like well that's not true, because someone eating baked beans in their cottage pie is clearly being unreasonable!! Just for one example.
If it annoys you just don't read thread's like this. Based on the amount of people commenting on these threads, others clearly like them. And so far you're alone in complaining about them

Ameliablue · 10/03/2020 21:49

My uni mates put baked beans in cottage pie and added cheese on top.

Hahaha88 · 10/03/2020 21:49

@scrappydappydoo I totally read it as you're putting a dollop of bananas in and I thought what the actual has gone wrong in scraps life to think that's how you make cottage pie

Mamato2gorgeousboys · 10/03/2020 21:52

People are weird. You don’t add tomatoes to a cottage pie. I know someone who adds a tin of beans. He says his mum did it, so that’s how he likes it Grin

Theukisgreatt · 10/03/2020 21:54

Always made it like spag bol here. I find the 'other' version grim.

CandyLeBonBon · 10/03/2020 22:07

Oh dear. Did Someone forgot to take their lighthearted supplements today @slashlover

heroineinahalfshell · 10/03/2020 22:17

I put half a tin of chopped tomatoes in, with a beef stock cube, carrots & peas. So enough to have a bit of tomatoey-ness but without giving it the consistency of a sauce. I prefer it to just using stock as it's tastier!

JollyGiraffe12 · 10/03/2020 22:17

No need for tomatoes in a cottage pie....

scrappydappydoo · 10/03/2020 22:21

@hahaha88 I think we can all agree that bananas do not belong in cottage pie. There see I have brought agreement to the thread..

WellTidy · 10/03/2020 22:24

Not tomatoes, but Delia’s cottage pie recipe has a tablespoon of tomato purée in it. And some cinnamon. It’s really good.

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