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To not pay a crafter for a bespoke made item

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wherethewildrosesgrow · 02/03/2020 18:46

I’ve wanted a really nice bread bin for ages, fed up of my old rusty one leaving marks all over the kitchen worktop, saw a nice one on the internet, lovely design, but it wasn’t big enough, I needed a double/two loaf model.
Decided to splash out and get one made (wooden), spent ages sending pics/designs to local crafter, lots didn’t answer, or didn’t come back with a price after initially showing interest in taking on the project, or some couldn’t make it for nearly a year.
After a while I found a lovely new to crafting lady at an event, her work was amazing, and she quoted me £70 for a reclaimed solid oak bread bin, based on some pics I sent her, and included a rough sketch with measurements (internal& external), but I did say the size could altered slightly if she felt it would look more proportional, as long as it fitted two loaves (one on top of each other, with internal shelf), I even sent her a pic with the tape measure in front of the loaves I use for clarity...she sent me a sketch back, and I asked her to go ahead with the make.
Shes in the final stages, and today she’s sent me an update with pics.
Problem...it isn’t anything like the sketches either of us sent, she’s added the word BREAD in red to the front of it, which I never asked for, and wasn’t included in any of the pics or sketches.
It hasn’t got an internal shelf, the loaves look as if they are to fit side by side, so it’s going to take up far more valuable work surface space, and my kitchen isn’t big.
Im unsure if it’s even going to fit two loaves in...but it’s very hard to judge from a pic.
AND she has told me she’s made it out of pallet wood instead of the reclaimed oak, as she felt it looked more rustic...I did say initially I wanted rustic...but she gave me a samples of wood to chose from, and pallet wood is not the agreed oak.
EEEK.
Would I be really really unreasonable to say ‘I don’t want it, it’s not what we agreed’
I feel awful, as she new to crafting, and she’s lovely....but it, in my eyes anyway, it looks awful, I don’t feel I could use it elsewhere even.
This is my Christmas birthday and Mother’s Day present all in one, I feel like somebody like me should never even of attempted to have something handmade, I should of stuck to one for a fiver from B&M.
She’s on holiday til the weekend, so I don’t want to message her immediately, and spoil things for her

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MinnieMountain · 03/03/2020 14:31

acatcalledjohn we had some clients at my law firm in England who were Plymouth Brethren. Maybe it's a reference to that? not racist.

DioneTheDiabolist · 03/03/2020 14:41

Crazy biscuits.

MaggieFS · 03/03/2020 14:43

I'm not keen on the roller top design of the one on Amazon, but if anyone else has a bread bin with a shelf, please let me know! I think I've found OP's original image on Wayfair, but that one doesn't have a shelf. I think this is the way to organise the disaster corner of my kitchen!

Ihatesundays · 03/03/2020 14:53

I’ve now been looking at 2 tier bread bins. I hope there is a random uk spike in sales.

Jimmers · 03/03/2020 14:54

Crumbs! That escalated quickly!

Sorry. not sorry

Deux · 03/03/2020 14:56

Me too. I had no idea you could get double decker bread bins. What a genius idea. I’m going to measure up as I always find some oddment at the bottom of mine.

SickOFant · 03/03/2020 14:58

I don't think I've ever been as invested in a story as I am in this.

This shits all over War and Peace

Grembolina · 03/03/2020 15:01

I was enjoying the thread but the racism has offended me too much to continue reading.

coconuttelegraph · 03/03/2020 15:10

I was enjoying the thread but the racism has offended me too much to continue reading

Am I the only one dense enough to be missing something, where are the racist posts, or is that a joke? Confused

Flutteringsatlast · 03/03/2020 15:11

Was a while back and non intentioned with an apology....
Let's not taint the thread...

Littlejayx · 03/03/2020 15:17

Who ever posted muffin to see here are worthy of £100

ShirleyPhallus · 03/03/2020 15:18

Am I the only one dense enough to be missing something, where are the racist posts, or is that a joke?

I said “I think the police have better things to do with their time than investigate bread bin crimes”

Which apparently is a play on words of something racist that no one else has ever heard

Was a while back and non intentioned with an apology....

It was indeed a while back but I haven’t made an apology, really don’t think there is anything to apologise for!

SnoozyLou · 03/03/2020 15:18

We don't even own a bread bin. I too am now thinking of purchasing one. Anyone know where I can get one like this?

To not pay a crafter for a bespoke made item
Grembolina · 03/03/2020 15:20

My post saying the racism had offended me was sarcastic. I didn't think the post was racist at all.

I feel this thread may turn sourdough.

GabsAlot · 03/03/2020 15:24

this shits over war and peace

crying!

Ohtherewearethen · 03/03/2020 15:37

@SnoozyLou 😂 unfortunately not but I think someone on here could point you in the direction of a rat urine soaked, chemical infested, wooden pallet one that says BRLAD on it if you're in the market for something bespoke?

CountessAlexandrovna · 03/03/2020 15:39

Having ruined her upcoming Mother’s Pride day, you do realise she’s going to set her naan on you.

CaptainButtock · 03/03/2020 15:56

@Grembolina Grin

IntermittentParps · 03/03/2020 15:57

I feel this thread may turn sourdough. Grin
Stop it!

CaptainButtock · 03/03/2020 15:58

Op, are you sure you really knead the bread bin?

1forAll74 · 03/03/2020 15:58

What you need,is a tiny kitchen like mine,so no room for a bespoke,or other type bread bin. I keep my bread stuff in a little cupboard,next to the cornflakes and shredded wheat boxes.

SnoozyLou · 03/03/2020 16:02

@Ohtherewearethen That sounds perfect. Thank you.

BemidjiMinnesota · 03/03/2020 16:05

Ohtherewearethen

SnoozyLou 😂 unfortunately not but I think someone on here could point you in the direction of a rat urine soaked, chemical infested, wooden pallet one that says BRLAD on it if you're in the market for something bespoke?

Dead 😂😂

I'm so sorry that you've had a pitchfork wielding mob whipped up against you @wherethewildrosesgrow but hopefully you can take solace in how much fun this thread has been (for us).

LonginesPrime · 03/03/2020 16:13

OP, I'd report her to the event organiser for the event you found her at to warn them - this is insane behaviour from a supposed business-owner- even without the harassment and data breach, she didn't even attempt to resolve the dispute before blocking you.

crispysausagerolls · 03/03/2020 16:16

This is one of the best MN breads ever

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