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To not pay a crafter for a bespoke made item

586 replies

wherethewildrosesgrow · 02/03/2020 18:46

I’ve wanted a really nice bread bin for ages, fed up of my old rusty one leaving marks all over the kitchen worktop, saw a nice one on the internet, lovely design, but it wasn’t big enough, I needed a double/two loaf model.
Decided to splash out and get one made (wooden), spent ages sending pics/designs to local crafter, lots didn’t answer, or didn’t come back with a price after initially showing interest in taking on the project, or some couldn’t make it for nearly a year.
After a while I found a lovely new to crafting lady at an event, her work was amazing, and she quoted me £70 for a reclaimed solid oak bread bin, based on some pics I sent her, and included a rough sketch with measurements (internal& external), but I did say the size could altered slightly if she felt it would look more proportional, as long as it fitted two loaves (one on top of each other, with internal shelf), I even sent her a pic with the tape measure in front of the loaves I use for clarity...she sent me a sketch back, and I asked her to go ahead with the make.
Shes in the final stages, and today she’s sent me an update with pics.
Problem...it isn’t anything like the sketches either of us sent, she’s added the word BREAD in red to the front of it, which I never asked for, and wasn’t included in any of the pics or sketches.
It hasn’t got an internal shelf, the loaves look as if they are to fit side by side, so it’s going to take up far more valuable work surface space, and my kitchen isn’t big.
Im unsure if it’s even going to fit two loaves in...but it’s very hard to judge from a pic.
AND she has told me she’s made it out of pallet wood instead of the reclaimed oak, as she felt it looked more rustic...I did say initially I wanted rustic...but she gave me a samples of wood to chose from, and pallet wood is not the agreed oak.
EEEK.
Would I be really really unreasonable to say ‘I don’t want it, it’s not what we agreed’
I feel awful, as she new to crafting, and she’s lovely....but it, in my eyes anyway, it looks awful, I don’t feel I could use it elsewhere even.
This is my Christmas birthday and Mother’s Day present all in one, I feel like somebody like me should never even of attempted to have something handmade, I should of stuck to one for a fiver from B&M.
She’s on holiday til the weekend, so I don’t want to message her immediately, and spoil things for her

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undercoveraessedai · 05/03/2020 10:33

baguette to fuck

Crying!! OP I'm sorry you have had to experience this but thank you for a hilarious thread to brighten a dull day!

BlooperReel · 05/03/2020 10:51

She sounds like an absolute chancer? I'd have to respond and ask if she was on a wind up.

WhiteBadger · 05/03/2020 11:03

@wherethewildrosesgrow
Has everything been sorted? It sounds like a nightmare!

WellThisIsShit · 05/03/2020 13:58

Gosh I’m glad you / your work spoke to the police about the harassment the ‘friends’ had started, ghastly,

CountessAlexandrovna · 05/03/2020 14:03

She owes you an apology and a bunch of flours.

Windyatthebeach · 05/03/2020 14:26

I doughn't think her business will last somehow...

ScrimshawTheSecond · 05/03/2020 14:38

Oh, I say, Countess. Well done. Flowers

SchadenfreudePersonified · 05/03/2020 16:25

She owes you an apology and a bunch of flours

Nice one! (I luffs a pun)

An apologetic bunch of flours is definitely in order on the bespoke-cake thread, Countess

Grin
FilledSoda · 05/03/2020 16:38

Some crazy angry people around .

CountessAlexandrovna · 05/03/2020 17:10

😉

mouldyoldonkey · 05/03/2020 17:33
Grin
Soubriquet · 05/03/2020 17:36

I love that this is a literal bun fight

OchAyeThaNoo · 06/03/2020 20:55

@wherethewildrosesgrow Has the harassment stopped yet?

IntermittentParps · 07/03/2020 11:53

I’m glad you told her to baguette to fuck
Grin Grin Grin

gottastopeatingchocolate · 07/03/2020 14:20

*This is genius

Nice to see the gluten frees are catered for too*

@JulietTango - I want to be your friend! This made me laugh out loud.

Dieu · 07/03/2020 14:30

God, for 70 quid, you sound more trouble than you're worth! Pictures and sketches indeed, who over invests like this in a bread bin?!

lynzpynz · 07/03/2020 14:40

Oh OP I hope you get this sorted out and the police take this harassment appropriately seriously. What a red neck by the 'crafter', and as for her friends what a bunch of crack pots!

Given the history of her previous partnership, touting someone else's work as her own and also withholding (and using!) someone else's materials and tools she sounds a true CF. Fingers crossed she gets her just desserts. Even if you decide not to go with the aforementioned previous business partner I'd def contact them and let them know what's been going on - would assume if they have any sense they may have a small claims court case this could strengthen!

Patsypie · 07/03/2020 14:47

Still no pic?

JulietTango · 07/03/2020 16:20

@gottastopeatingchocolate

Grin I'm not sure that poster meant it like that though, I couldn't let the opportunity pass

FilledSoda · 07/03/2020 17:56

Don't post a photo .
Did you see how the Daily Fail stole the fag ash cake story ?

WhiteBadger · 07/03/2020 20:28

Can't believe The Sun didn't pick up on the cigarette on the ashtray ... wait .. yeah .. of course they didn't, they only read the first 2 posts!! 🙄

FrockFrockFrockityFrock · 07/03/2020 21:02

Here I was thinking readers would see the cigarette in the ashtray but I see that photo has been cropped so you can't see the cigarette. FFS.

Falcor40 · 07/03/2020 21:14

This is the bread bin post....

Not the cake post.

WhatICallMyUsername · 07/03/2020 23:24

@falcor 🤦‍♀️ if people are going to comment at least make sure you're on the right thread lol Grin

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