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To not pay a crafter for a bespoke made item

586 replies

wherethewildrosesgrow · 02/03/2020 18:46

I’ve wanted a really nice bread bin for ages, fed up of my old rusty one leaving marks all over the kitchen worktop, saw a nice one on the internet, lovely design, but it wasn’t big enough, I needed a double/two loaf model.
Decided to splash out and get one made (wooden), spent ages sending pics/designs to local crafter, lots didn’t answer, or didn’t come back with a price after initially showing interest in taking on the project, or some couldn’t make it for nearly a year.
After a while I found a lovely new to crafting lady at an event, her work was amazing, and she quoted me £70 for a reclaimed solid oak bread bin, based on some pics I sent her, and included a rough sketch with measurements (internal& external), but I did say the size could altered slightly if she felt it would look more proportional, as long as it fitted two loaves (one on top of each other, with internal shelf), I even sent her a pic with the tape measure in front of the loaves I use for clarity...she sent me a sketch back, and I asked her to go ahead with the make.
Shes in the final stages, and today she’s sent me an update with pics.
Problem...it isn’t anything like the sketches either of us sent, she’s added the word BREAD in red to the front of it, which I never asked for, and wasn’t included in any of the pics or sketches.
It hasn’t got an internal shelf, the loaves look as if they are to fit side by side, so it’s going to take up far more valuable work surface space, and my kitchen isn’t big.
Im unsure if it’s even going to fit two loaves in...but it’s very hard to judge from a pic.
AND she has told me she’s made it out of pallet wood instead of the reclaimed oak, as she felt it looked more rustic...I did say initially I wanted rustic...but she gave me a samples of wood to chose from, and pallet wood is not the agreed oak.
EEEK.
Would I be really really unreasonable to say ‘I don’t want it, it’s not what we agreed’
I feel awful, as she new to crafting, and she’s lovely....but it, in my eyes anyway, it looks awful, I don’t feel I could use it elsewhere even.
This is my Christmas birthday and Mother’s Day present all in one, I feel like somebody like me should never even of attempted to have something handmade, I should of stuck to one for a fiver from B&M.
She’s on holiday til the weekend, so I don’t want to message her immediately, and spoil things for her

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Raspberrytruffle · 03/03/2020 16:28

Holly bread this thread is bonkers, it puts me off using anyone services on social media because of this crazy behaviour! Yanbu op

SweetpeaOrMarigold · 03/03/2020 16:43

*Just realised that I said "segregated" when I mentioned my rye bread and crumpets.

This was not racially intended.*
Still laughing over this

SweetpeaOrMarigold · 03/03/2020 16:43

😐 stupid non bolding

Sypha · 03/03/2020 16:45

Between this and the Garda Olaf, Mumsnet's been brilliant this week.

MumW · 03/03/2020 16:54

I think we can all work out why her carpenter partner left.

Maybe the OP's read in will help them get their tools back.

MumW · 03/03/2020 16:56

Bread bin, obviously.

Catting · 03/03/2020 16:59

What a PITA. By that I mean Pain In The Arse, not the flatbread.

GladAllOver · 03/03/2020 17:08

I don't blame you for getting crusty about this. It's certainly not worth so much dough.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 03/03/2020 17:09

I'm shocked, Schadenfreude - shocked I tell you

I am ashamed . . .

Blush
LannieDuck · 03/03/2020 17:13

What on earth is she hoping to achieve by all that? I don't understand some people.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 03/03/2020 17:18

I had no idea you could get double decker bread bins. What a genius idea. I’m going to measure up as I always find some oddment at the bottom of mine.

A crushed oddment.

Smelling slightly of swamps . . .

SchadenfreudePersonified · 03/03/2020 17:21

unfortunately not but I think someone on here could point you in the direction of a rat urine soaked, chemical infested, wooden pallet one that says BRLAD on it if you're in the market for something bespoke?

Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

BumbleBeee69 · 03/03/2020 17:25

christ.. this has to go into CLASSICS 😳

TheClitterati · 03/03/2020 17:28

This thread is very punny Grin

OhLookHeKickedTheBall · 03/03/2020 17:32

This thread is very punny
You could say it's BUNtastic

Durgasarrow · 03/03/2020 17:41

Pallet wood is literally garbage. It is full of chemicals that should not be touching food.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 03/03/2020 17:55

I'd report her to the event organiser for the event you found her at to warn them

Surely the only real surprise is that the tosser attended a craft event at all - after all, you usually have to pay for a stall at these

She sounds more the type to advertise her crap on Facebook for free ...

CaptainButtock · 03/03/2020 18:21

The two things I will take from this thread:

A) People are lunatics: avoid at all cost (Coronavirus notwithstanding)

B) Next time I order a sandwich in a caf and am asked what kind of bread I would like, I will be nervous about saying ‘white’.

puds11 · 03/03/2020 18:34

Bread bins are shite anyway.

NameChange657 · 03/03/2020 18:41

This is breadful, such a crumby situation to be in.

wallflowersunited · 03/03/2020 19:05

You could say it's BUNtastic

On the contrary, I think it's all gone to seed but the OP has been a real brioche to put up with all the puns.

tenlittlecygnets · 03/03/2020 19:09

£70 for a box to put bread in. The world has gone mad, but at least it’s not another threaD about coronavirus...

TheBananaInPyjamas · 03/03/2020 19:18

Wow this has escalated quickly!

Sorry OP you had to experience this. I hope it gets resolved and she and her cronies back off.

Racism comments made me lol - although in my school we did use the word "Bread bin" in the way a pp said. It then escalated to types of bread so we'd greet each other like "wassup my hovis?!"

Genuinely thought that was just my school but maybe a regional thing? (East London 2000s)

TheBananaInPyjamas · 03/03/2020 19:19

P.S for the record I know nobody was being racist and that we are just talking about bread!!!!

Just thought I'd say that "bread bin" did have another meaning for some kids!

Shinesweetfreedom · 03/03/2020 19:22

What an absolute scummy loser.
Bet her original communications were all “ok hun” bollocks.
Very telling her mates have got all day to play silly buggers on the phone,not like they will be rushing off to work.