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To not pay a crafter for a bespoke made item

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wherethewildrosesgrow · 02/03/2020 18:46

I’ve wanted a really nice bread bin for ages, fed up of my old rusty one leaving marks all over the kitchen worktop, saw a nice one on the internet, lovely design, but it wasn’t big enough, I needed a double/two loaf model.
Decided to splash out and get one made (wooden), spent ages sending pics/designs to local crafter, lots didn’t answer, or didn’t come back with a price after initially showing interest in taking on the project, or some couldn’t make it for nearly a year.
After a while I found a lovely new to crafting lady at an event, her work was amazing, and she quoted me £70 for a reclaimed solid oak bread bin, based on some pics I sent her, and included a rough sketch with measurements (internal& external), but I did say the size could altered slightly if she felt it would look more proportional, as long as it fitted two loaves (one on top of each other, with internal shelf), I even sent her a pic with the tape measure in front of the loaves I use for clarity...she sent me a sketch back, and I asked her to go ahead with the make.
Shes in the final stages, and today she’s sent me an update with pics.
Problem...it isn’t anything like the sketches either of us sent, she’s added the word BREAD in red to the front of it, which I never asked for, and wasn’t included in any of the pics or sketches.
It hasn’t got an internal shelf, the loaves look as if they are to fit side by side, so it’s going to take up far more valuable work surface space, and my kitchen isn’t big.
Im unsure if it’s even going to fit two loaves in...but it’s very hard to judge from a pic.
AND she has told me she’s made it out of pallet wood instead of the reclaimed oak, as she felt it looked more rustic...I did say initially I wanted rustic...but she gave me a samples of wood to chose from, and pallet wood is not the agreed oak.
EEEK.
Would I be really really unreasonable to say ‘I don’t want it, it’s not what we agreed’
I feel awful, as she new to crafting, and she’s lovely....but it, in my eyes anyway, it looks awful, I don’t feel I could use it elsewhere even.
This is my Christmas birthday and Mother’s Day present all in one, I feel like somebody like me should never even of attempted to have something handmade, I should of stuck to one for a fiver from B&M.
She’s on holiday til the weekend, so I don’t want to message her immediately, and spoil things for her

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Thisismytimetoshine · 03/03/2020 12:01

Racist 🤷🏻‍♀️ Not everyone speaks in code, ffs... Most words can be assumed to mean the literal, dictionary definition of the word.

Catting · 03/03/2020 12:01

It's only racist if the bread bin said 'white bread only' on it.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 03/03/2020 12:06

Enthused by this thread and the realisation that you can get a multi-story bread-bin (who knew?!), I am ordering one of the two-tier jobs from Amazon.

I am ridiculously excited by the prospect of being able to keep crumpets and rye bread neatly segregated rather than squashed together when I jam the lid down.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 03/03/2020 12:09

Don't you just love Mumsnet sometimes? Whether a joke or not it takes a bit of doing to bring racism into a thread about bread bins, but at least it creates a rye smile Wink

Thisismytimetoshine · 03/03/2020 12:09

I’ve just checked Amazon after your post, Schaden, I didn’t think they were a thing either.
Why did you decide to have one specially commissioned for 70 quid, op?!!

rivertoskateaway · 03/03/2020 12:09

I just keep my bread in the microwave. Saves on worktop space and does the job. Except when you accidentally forget to take out a few rogue crumpets before you use it.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 03/03/2020 12:10

This has been a puntastic thread.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 03/03/2020 12:12

Just realised that I said "segregated" when I mentioned my rye bread and crumpets.

This was not racially intended.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 03/03/2020 12:13

There is no room for bread in my microwave. It is full of stuff I don't want the cats to get at.

ShirleyPhallus · 03/03/2020 12:13

but at least it creates a rye smile

Bravo @Puzzledandpissedoff

Ffsseriously · 03/03/2020 12:14

@SchadenfreudePersonified Grin

Lipz · 03/03/2020 12:16

So... you sent pics and diagrams and measurements of a bread bin that you wanted. She sent you pics of it finished or nearly finished and it's nothing like you wanted so you messaged her if she sent you the wrong picture and she's now slated you online ? Sorry if I missed a post but did she not try to work this out with you first ?

If she's online slating you then you need to put up the pics to show her how wrong she is. If she has you blocked you'll have to do it under a different account. Of course she'll have friends backing her up, she could have made you a wooden goat and her friends will back her up, she probably has a few accounts backing herself up.

There are unfortunately some people out there who claim to be able to make and do things and they can't. It's the reason why people are terrified to get big things done in their homes for fear of them being a scammer.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 03/03/2020 12:22

Just realised that I said "segregated" when I mentioned my rye bread and crumpets

I'm shocked, Schadenfreude - shocked I tell you
You're usually so reliable when it comes to witty and apposite remarks, and yet here you are, stomping in with your unconscious bias Grin

Littlejayx · 03/03/2020 12:22

I swear if I don’t see the picture of this bread bin 😂😂😂

ShellsandSand · 03/03/2020 12:23

I'm so annoyed I'll never see the finished product. Please tell us her fb page op

GulliBelle · 03/03/2020 12:25

if anyone has bought a double layer breadbin on the back of this thread, could they report back over quality and practicality. It seems too good an idea not to be widely available. Thanks!

TheSoapyFrog · 03/03/2020 12:31

I read 17 pages worth of comments and there is still no photo of the offending bread bin!

MaggieFS · 03/03/2020 12:38

OP, can you screen shot to us what she's put on Facebook, so you're not sharing anything she hasn't made public?

Travis1 · 03/03/2020 12:41

oh wow shes batshit isnt she?

WiddlinDiddlin · 03/03/2020 12:50

Oh...

I really want a wonky, not quite what I ordered, with 'bread' written on it, bread bin.

Do share her public facebook business page so I can order one, please!

Jellybeansincognito · 03/03/2020 12:52

Oh my goodness op.

I hope you’re dealing with their harassment. Particularly if they’re contacting your place of work 😕

Sagradafamiliar · 03/03/2020 13:00

Show us the offending bread bin or the entire thing didn't happen.

I crust that you haven't baked this so just prove it.

poorbuthappy · 03/03/2020 13:09

I really think we should wrap this up now....

HerRoyalCarbyLess · 03/03/2020 13:14

Pics or it didn't happen.
I neeeed to see the offending bread bin.

WarmestRegards · 03/03/2020 13:16

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