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To not pay a crafter for a bespoke made item

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wherethewildrosesgrow · 02/03/2020 18:46

I’ve wanted a really nice bread bin for ages, fed up of my old rusty one leaving marks all over the kitchen worktop, saw a nice one on the internet, lovely design, but it wasn’t big enough, I needed a double/two loaf model.
Decided to splash out and get one made (wooden), spent ages sending pics/designs to local crafter, lots didn’t answer, or didn’t come back with a price after initially showing interest in taking on the project, or some couldn’t make it for nearly a year.
After a while I found a lovely new to crafting lady at an event, her work was amazing, and she quoted me £70 for a reclaimed solid oak bread bin, based on some pics I sent her, and included a rough sketch with measurements (internal& external), but I did say the size could altered slightly if she felt it would look more proportional, as long as it fitted two loaves (one on top of each other, with internal shelf), I even sent her a pic with the tape measure in front of the loaves I use for clarity...she sent me a sketch back, and I asked her to go ahead with the make.
Shes in the final stages, and today she’s sent me an update with pics.
Problem...it isn’t anything like the sketches either of us sent, she’s added the word BREAD in red to the front of it, which I never asked for, and wasn’t included in any of the pics or sketches.
It hasn’t got an internal shelf, the loaves look as if they are to fit side by side, so it’s going to take up far more valuable work surface space, and my kitchen isn’t big.
Im unsure if it’s even going to fit two loaves in...but it’s very hard to judge from a pic.
AND she has told me she’s made it out of pallet wood instead of the reclaimed oak, as she felt it looked more rustic...I did say initially I wanted rustic...but she gave me a samples of wood to chose from, and pallet wood is not the agreed oak.
EEEK.
Would I be really really unreasonable to say ‘I don’t want it, it’s not what we agreed’
I feel awful, as she new to crafting, and she’s lovely....but it, in my eyes anyway, it looks awful, I don’t feel I could use it elsewhere even.
This is my Christmas birthday and Mother’s Day present all in one, I feel like somebody like me should never even of attempted to have something handmade, I should of stuck to one for a fiver from B&M.
She’s on holiday til the weekend, so I don’t want to message her immediately, and spoil things for her

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ScrimshawTheSecond · 03/03/2020 10:00

Calling your work's emergency number? That's totally unacceptable. A bit worrying, to be honest. I would take steps to distance yourself from this woman and keep a record of everything.

BeatItBarry · 03/03/2020 10:01

She must be baking some GDPR here?

MaggieFS · 03/03/2020 10:01

So what's the list up to now? GDPR breach, libel, harassment?

LucyAutumn · 03/03/2020 10:03

If she's been in touch with your work then that's harassment, time to get the police involved.

Mamawingingit1234 · 03/03/2020 10:03

Wow hope you’re ok OP. That’s really uncalled for

DropYourSword · 03/03/2020 10:06

And questionable taste and poor designer skills. Don’t forget those @MaggieFS

5zeds · 03/03/2020 10:13

Called works emergency number Shock

I have to say that would make me FURIOUS.Angry

seltaeb · 03/03/2020 10:15

I suggest you report her formally to trading standards as if she really believes making a food container out of old pallets is OK then she needs to be officially advised that she cannot do that.

MaggieFS · 03/03/2020 10:20

@DropYourSword Good point!

Ladyratterley · 03/03/2020 10:26

I would be FUMING that she/one of her friends has called your work emergency number. She is unhinged.
I think you're doing the right thing in blocking and ignoring, unless things escalate any more.

littleduckeggblue · 03/03/2020 10:26

Can you tell us what pages it shared to? Maybe we could comment?

ifIwerenotanandroid · 03/03/2020 10:38

Catting

I had my credit card ready in my hand, when I noticed your superior bread bin has the word 'Bread' on it. Sorry, I'm out.

TheClaws · 03/03/2020 10:48

Can you tell us what pages it shared to? Maybe we could comment?

1% of this happening. I wouldn’t waste my time.

BemidjiMinnesota · 03/03/2020 10:49

seltaeb

i suggest you report her formally to trading standards as if she really believes making a food container out of old pallets is OK then she needs to be officially advised that she cannot do that.

Yes, this ^ She could poison someone.

RedPanda2 · 03/03/2020 10:53

I'm missing the point but how can anyone make a bread bin for £70???? Should be at least double that!

Weregoingonanadventure · 03/03/2020 10:59

Which event did you see her at? Was it a tiny, local church hall fair or was it organised by a big group like the crafters roadshow or something? If there was a proper branded organiser then you should get in touch with them, including all your screenshots and explain the threatening behaviour etc to ensure they don't allow her back. I work with a lot of market organisers and they wouldn't want someone like that back incase she makes a habit of treating potential customers like that.

MagnoliaJustice · 03/03/2020 11:05

Does this woman have her own Facebook page to flog her dodgy crafts on? I would love to see it - and the poisoned bread bin.

NoMoreDickheads · 03/03/2020 11:24

YANBU, You'd be doing nothing wrong in saying you don't want it, as it's not what you agreed to. I would do so ASAP. xx

IntermittentParps · 03/03/2020 11:26

Christ, she's a proper nutter!
You've dodged a bullet, OP.

I agree that depending on the size and organising structure of the show then you should get in touch with the organiser and explain exactly what happened.

Also think about talking to a solicitor about her libellous actions in posting untruths about you to public pages. Screenshot them too, in case anyone takes them down, and make sure they're date-stamped.

Catting · 03/03/2020 11:38

@ifIwerenotanandroid, I spent the money I was saving to buy my sick elderly mother a Mother's Day gift on those materials!!
She's crying now, I hope you are happy.

OlaEliza · 03/03/2020 11:43

I hear the police are most interested in solving all the bread bin crimes

Bit racist that.

Breadbin was a pisstake of
Bredren which was patois for
Brethren
When I was at school.

Lochroy · 03/03/2020 11:50

What a storm in a tea cake. Muffin to see here, but it's all scone wrong and there are now some sourdough grapes.

ShirleyPhallus · 03/03/2020 11:56

Bit racist that.

Wtaf. Did you actually read the thread? It is LITERALLY about bread bins.

OVienna · 03/03/2020 11:59

@OlaEliza Context is everything, though, isn't it?

(I can't tell if you're being sarcastic....)

DropYourSword · 03/03/2020 12:00

Me either @ovienna! I was assuming so though!

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