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To think the vet/RSPCA are BU and what do i do now?

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Chaosdragon · 02/03/2020 13:31

Saturday afternoon person knocks on the door to say that they have seen my cat staggering into the back garden and they think its been hit by a car as its dragging its legs. Me and DSs go and hunt for the cat which we find but it turns out not to be ours. Its quite clearly got cat flu or the like as has green snot running out of its eyes and its nose is completely caked over. It also doesn't seem able to stand.

I ring the vets to say can I take it in to be told they don't have a stray cat account and so to ring the RSPCA to get a log number so they can see it and the RSPCA will pay for it. Done and we take the cat in.

The good news is that theres nothing wrong with its back end, it seems to be staggering because its got an ear infection as well as the cat flu. Vet can't keep cat in surgery because there is noone there on the Sunday, so its agreed it will come home with me until Monday and I am given some medication to give it Sun night / monday morning.

Its the cutest little thing and mega friendly but its not eating or drinking and I ring the emergency vet sunday night to ask advice as medication is to be given on a full stomach. They say not to give one lot of the medication and ring my surgery first thing Monday as originally planned.

I ring my vet this morning and am basically told there is nothing they are willing can do. They can't have it at the surgery as they have healthy cats in and no isolation room. They won't see it or give it any more treatment as the cover vet on Saturday did a lot and bill is already £150 and she has only ever known RSPCA to pay up to £80 so they already won't get paid whole amount so cant do more. She knows local cat charities are full and it will be difficult for any of them to take cat it. Suggests I ring RSPCA

I ring RSPCA and am basically told to release the cat back where I found it as emergency treatment has been completed. I point out this likely means the cat will die and am basically politely told tough crap. After falling out with the call handler, it has been agreed that she will pass a message onto someone higher up the chain and see if there is anything else that can be done but am told that the policy with strays is emergency treatment only and then release.

AIBU to think both the vet and the RSPCA are utter jerks and what can I do with it now. I don't really have the funds for any expensive treatment for her, but I could pay to have her PTS rather than leave her to a long lingering death outside but that just seems grim.

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honeyloops · 02/03/2020 18:26

Oh she's beautiful, wonky head and all 😍

buzzwizz619 · 02/03/2020 18:28

Bloody hell I'm genuinely horrified that they have sent her home with you in that state and aren't offering her support because the value of the RSPCA log number has been used.

At the very least she should have subcutaneous fluids to dehydrate her and generally that's done before trying to get her to eat.

Also the RSPCA telling you to release her is insane it's against the law to release a wild animal that isn't well enough to survive on it's own so to suggest that for a domestic animal!

Unfortunately it's really hard to get the RSPCA to take cats in Staffordshire you just get passes from pillar to post and no one will take responsibility.

I really hope Iris cats in need can help you ☹

user1465335180 · 02/03/2020 18:29

Op, you're a lovely person, thank you for being the person who cared enough to help

DdraigGoch · 02/03/2020 18:30

I'm not surprised at the RSPCA's response, they put down healthy animals without a second thought so are hardly going to care about an ill one.

Daffodil55 · 02/03/2020 18:30

I have been in a similar position as the OP several years ago. Long story shortened I took in young cat no one else wanted and she was healthy at that time. Bad luck though as shortly after that she developed a serious condition which was treatable but without treatment she would not survive for long. I did not hesitate and went without my annual holiday so I could pay the high 3 figure vet bill. Not qualifying for PDSA treatment and I knew no one who was interested in helping so that lovely cat recovered and had many healthy years with me. I was devoted to her.

This was a time before Facebook. Now a massive wide audience can be acquired almost instantly so there must be someone out there who can take this animal in if the OP is determined not to keep it. Getting it back to good health is the problem now though and I would help financially if she cares to contact me on here. This is a serious offer.

katkit · 02/03/2020 18:32

She's so sweet. you are doing such a lovely thing, looking after her.

Doggyperson · 02/03/2020 18:35

@Witchend I'd gladly give money to someone in that position but were always being told on here not to give as you don't know if its genuine.

I feel this is.

EachandEveryone · 02/03/2020 18:35

She is gorgeous. Thank you🍰

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 02/03/2020 18:35

What a wee toot. When our cat was a bit off her food last year she took tuna in spring water, mashed up, that might be worth a shot? I gave it ten seconds in the microwave first so it had quite a strong fishy smell. As soon as we got Metcam from the vet she was fine until her dental surgery, and back to being super-greedy.

CarolinaPink · 02/03/2020 18:43

See here, www.telegraph.co.uk/pets/animal-pet-hedgehog-pete-wedderburn-vet/

It doesn't sound as though the vet has met his/her professional obligations.

Poor wee thing :(

catwithnohat · 02/03/2020 18:56

Do you have the PDSA in your area, would they help?

littlealexhorne · 02/03/2020 19:00

She's gorgeous, and its so lovely of you to be looking after her. I really hope she's feeling better soon.

PickwickThePlockingDodo · 02/03/2020 19:04

Oh she is so cute. Definitely set up a go fund me page if there's no luck with the charities.
Thanks for caring, OP Thanks

Largeyellowdaffodil · 02/03/2020 19:07

I've learnt something on this thread.Forget your starving twins, 47p until payday found down the back of the sofa and only half a tin of beans in the cupboard.If you want mn-ers to offer cash then go for injured animals.

Well the OP has provided proof that the cat exists- unlike most of the fictional children.

adaline · 02/03/2020 19:11

Well the OP has provided proof that the cat exists- unlike most of the fictional children.

Well, she's posted a photo of a kitten.

Not that I disbelieve the OP at all, but MN specifically say not to give money to strangers on the internet.

adaline · 02/03/2020 19:12

Bloody hell I'm genuinely horrified that they have sent her home with you in that state and aren't offering her support because the value of the RSPCA log number has been used.

But why should the vets just give out free treatment? They're a business and have costs associated with that - they can't just give out free medication and time to random animals!

buzzwizz619 · 02/03/2020 19:20

@adaline because they have a legal obligation to provide emergency treatment, because what if the finder couldn't take her home because of allergies or none cat friendly dogs or cats that risk being exposed? Because subcutaneous fluids cost pennies and because a dehydrated cat that isn't eating and can't walk properly is an emergency. Why should the finder be lumbered with a cat that she is now responsible for? ☹

Chaosdragon · 02/03/2020 19:27

Tbf now im less in a tizz I am less inclined to be cross with the vets. They are a business after all and as such I suppose have to have a line else they'd be bust in no time. They are part of a larger chain but even so there must be a limit on their profits.

The RSPCA still irritate me just because given they supposed to be against the prevention of cruelty re-releasing it to die seems a tad ... well cruel! But then again with my reasonable hat on it was a call centre person and perhaps they just have a script to follow and nor could they see how she was. I suppose from their point of view she'd had treatment and so could go back out.

I was just panicking because she wouldn't eat, I couldn't give her her medication because she wouldn't eat and I had visions of her slowly starving to death in my spare room because I am limited on the funds I could spend on her and didn't feel happy just putting her outside and leaving her to it.

Hopefully now I have a better plan with regards to food that will work and she will improve and then although I am making noises about her not staying with us (we already have enough animals) odds are she will remain. I am OK funding some treatment for her, it was just there was talk of it possibly running into £1000s and thats not feasible. When If she stays I'll insure her anyway and then she'll be OK for the future although I assume excluded for cat flu.

Lol. I am getting splinters from sitting on the fence of my own AIBU!!!

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AlexaAmbidextra · 02/03/2020 19:27

I took an injured cat to our vet. He had been hit by a car and they treated him overnight but he subsequently died. I asked them to send me the bill and they said no, they didn’t expect people to pay vet costs for stray animals as if they charged it would possibly stop people from getting help for injured strays.

Veterinari · 02/03/2020 19:31

The vet should have advised you of treatment limits and offered euthanasia at the first appt.

The RSPCA should also have made limits clear so you could make an informed decision.

I assume no microchip?

Unfortunately this situation is pretty common and if there's no one to fund treatment, euthanasia is often the kindest option Sad

hamstersarse · 02/03/2020 19:34

The RSPCA seem to be just an advertising organisation. I’ve found 2 stray dogs and they refused both

“can’t you keep it!”

I’d never donate to them. They are an odd organisation and certainly not what they claim to be

eaglejulesk · 02/03/2020 19:35

I don't live in the UK, but I am wondering what exactly is the point of the RSPCA if they won't help? I know they deal with animal cruelty cases, but I would have thought sick or injured animals should also be entitled to their care. Our SPCA does come in for a lot of criticism too, but I'm pretty sure that in this case they would make sure the animal had the appropriate care and then find it a loving home.

adaline · 02/03/2020 19:35

because they have a legal obligation to provide emergency treatment, because what if the finder couldn't take her home because of allergies or none cat friendly dogs or cats that risk being exposed?

That's not strictly true @buzzwizz619 - they only have an obligation to provide emergency pain relief and treatment - but that doesn't have to be drugs and overnight stays. Emergency pain relief in most instances means they will put the animal to sleep humanely rather than allowing it to suffer.

www.rcvs.org.uk/setting-standards/advice-and-guidance/code-of-professional-conduct-for-veterinary-surgeons/supporting-guidance/24-hour-emergency-first-aid-and-pain-relief/

adaline · 02/03/2020 19:36

because they have a legal obligation to provide emergency treatment, because what if the finder couldn't take her home because of allergies or none cat friendly dogs or cats that risk being exposed?

That's not strictly true @buzzwizz619 - they only have an obligation to provide emergency pain relief and treatment - but that doesn't have to be drugs and overnight stays. Emergency pain relief in most instances means they will put the animal to sleep humanely rather than allowing it to suffer.

www.rcvs.org.uk/setting-standards/advice-and-guidance/code-of-professional-conduct-for-veterinary-surgeons/supporting-guidance/24-hour-emergency-first-aid-and-pain-relief/

eaglejulesk · 02/03/2020 19:40

I've just seen the photos - she is gorgeous. I meant to add in my post that you are a lovely person to care for her OP, and I do hope she gets better. I think she's yours now Grin

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