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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
needadvicethankyouplease · 25/02/2020 17:10

Celine Dion - Fly

Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wind of heaven's love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again
Fly, fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forevermore
But hold this memory bittersweet
Until we meet
Fly, fly do not fear
Don't waste a breath, don't shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, don't wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I won't forget
Fly, fly little wing
Fly where only angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light

💙💙💙

MsDogLady · 25/02/2020 17:11

You will be together always.

Enchiladas · 25/02/2020 17:15

I'm so sorry Flowers there are no words. I only just came across your post about your beautiful boy yesterday and I am in tears now hearing the news. Can't imagine how you must be feeling. You are so strong and your amazing little boy was so incredibly strong too. What an amazing little fighter. Flowers

namechangenumber2 · 25/02/2020 17:16

Cancer really effing sucks

I've been a chemo mum, one of the children who we got to know has just relapsed which is so soul destroying ☹️

RIP young man x

Notimeforaname · 25/02/2020 17:18

I'm so terribly sorry OP. Flowers
I spent the whole day thinking of you, your lovely boy and family.

He's at peace now.

Wrap yourself in all the love and support you can get❤️

You did everything you possibly could for your little boy.
He didn't just amaze you, he amazed us too.
So many of us have had him in our thoughts and hearts.
He's touched us all

Take care xx

Writersblock2 · 25/02/2020 17:22

I’m so sorry. Please come back and post when you need us. I think it’s been an honour for all of us to be able to share some of this with you even if we can’t do much from afar.

Thinking of you tonight. xxx

allyouneedis · 25/02/2020 17:26

So sorry for your loss. I’m sure he made the biggest, loveliest impact on your life. Life is so cruel 💔 x

AluminumMonster · 25/02/2020 17:27
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mrshoho · 25/02/2020 17:27

Sending love to you. Your darling little boy is in my thoughts. You did everything you possibly could and were there for him being the best Mummy through it all. Please feel comforted knowing you can speak about your treasured boy with us at any time.

Your heartbreaking posts have been a reminder of what is truly important in this fragile world we are all walking.

Big hugs to you 💙💖

Jimmers · 25/02/2020 17:28

@GoJetterGirl
Oh sweetheart. Utterly devastating for you. I feel privileged to have been part of this global handhold & it’s still here for you.
Whenever you need to come & tell us more about your gorgeous inquisitive boy with chocolate eyes.
Love & strength to you & yours xxx

OlaEliza · 25/02/2020 17:30

I'm so sorry. Flowers another candle lit here too 🕯️

Cheeringmeup · 25/02/2020 17:30

I'm so sorry for your loss OP, it's just so unfair. Sending love and support at this most awful of times. Rest now wee love x

Foxyloxy1plus1 · 25/02/2020 17:38

There are often very poignant posts GoJetterGirl. Yours is above and beyond. Your little boy has touched hundreds of people on here as well as all those you know IRL. Your heart is breaking and I hope there are people around you who can hold you up. Your boy sounds so wonderful. Carry him in your heart.

peaceanddove · 25/02/2020 17:40

I cannot comprehend how you feel. But I hope this might perhaps bring you a little but of comfort. Did you know that once energy has been created it can never, ever disappear? Yes, the energy can and will change its form in many ways, but that initial original energy goes on forever. I trained as a physicist and I have given you a very simplified truth, but it is a truth. And you can't change the Laws of Physics.

Your beautiful boy's essential energy will exist for always Flowers

notawittyname1954 · 25/02/2020 17:41

So so sorry. I truly believe those we love do not go far. x The biggest of hugs to you x

DramaAlpaca · 25/02/2020 17:41

I am so sorry for your loss Flowers

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 25/02/2020 17:43

I am very sorry for your loss Flowers

Scrunchcake · 25/02/2020 17:43

I've been thinking of you and your beautiful boy all day @gojettergirl. I'm so so sorry to read your post. Sending much love 💙

ElizabethMountbatten · 25/02/2020 17:47

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morpurgo · 25/02/2020 17:49

There are no words. I, and the MiniMorpurgos, will watch the Stonehenge episode together tomorrow for your darling GoJetterBoy. Your words are so so full of love for him and he is an absolute credit to you. You've both been so so brave - I remember your previous threads and the pain you've been through. Sending all my love Thanks

Stilllivinginazoo · 25/02/2020 17:50

Sending much love and strength for you and your family
There is always someone hear to listenFlowers

2019user44 · 25/02/2020 17:50

So so sorry GoJetterGirl. A candle lit here too. I hope you are being looked after. You will always be his mummy and he knows how much you loved him. There is a lovely book which ends:
Love, like starlight, never dies
Gojetterboy is the brightest star in the sky tonight.
Fly high little one xx

GaaaaarlicBread · 25/02/2020 17:51

I can’t find any words OP, I’ve just been reading your thread. I am so incredibly sorry. Your little boy sounds incredible , like something from the movies . He was so lucky to have you , and what a blessing his is . I’m sending you so many prayers and I know you’ll be together again one day. I wish I could do more to help xx

Throckmorton · 25/02/2020 17:51

I'm so very sorry. Much sympathy and hugs

geekone · 25/02/2020 17:56

I am so sorry gojettergirl, so sorry. Flowers