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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
Krazykitty · 25/02/2020 16:32

There are no words to ease the pain you must be in.

Your wonderful boy is at peace now knowing how loved he is. My thoughts and love are with you and your family 💐 💙

Thedogscollar · 25/02/2020 16:33

Oh GoJetterGirl Such sad news. You and your little boy have been in my thoughts today. There are no words my lovely. I am just so sad for you and your family. Please look after yourself.Flowers

ChaosTrulyReigns · 25/02/2020 16:36

I'm so so sorry for your loss, he sounded an amazing boy.

So many thoughts for you Thanks

myrtleWilson · 25/02/2020 16:37

Am so so sorry. Holding you all in my thoughts x

Knitwit99 · 25/02/2020 16:46

It's getting dark in my corner of the world, I have lit a candle for gojetterboy

Sending love x

To ask for a handhold?
DancyNancy · 25/02/2020 16:46

Oh darling. Flowers
No words, just love and tears for you all.
RIP gorgeous precious boy.

SlightlyJaded · 25/02/2020 16:52

It's an unbearable loss my love. But bear it you you. Somehow, someday - in the future, you will be able to remember GoJetterBoy without falling apart.

The crack in your heart will always be there but in time you will wear the scar well, knowing that it is evidence forever that GoJetterBoy lived and was loved.

For now, fall apart if you need to. I would in your shoes xx

HippyChickMama · 25/02/2020 16:52

I'm so sorry, my heart goes out to you all, including your lovely boy. This must be so hard for you but I hope these messages from MNers will bring you some comfort and strength now and in the future, and that you can take some comfort from the fact that for the whole of his short life he was loved and will have left this world knowing that too. Sending you love Thanks

SlightlyJaded · 25/02/2020 16:52

*you will

HairyDogsOfThigh · 25/02/2020 16:53

So very sorry for your loss.

Blondephantom · 25/02/2020 16:54

I am so very sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. There are no words.

DancyNancy · 25/02/2020 16:54

I carry your heart with me(I carry it in
my heart)
I am never without it(anywhere
I go you go,my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
I fear no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)
I want no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart

I carry your heart(I carry it in my heart)

By E E Cummings

Rhapsodyinpurple · 25/02/2020 16:57

I am so sorry. Words are not enough.
GoJetterBoy will always know that he was loved very much.
Take care of yourself.
RIP precious boy
Thinking of you and your family.

MrsMozartMkII · 25/02/2020 16:57

Oh darling. I am so very, very sorry.

Flowers
amazedmummy · 25/02/2020 16:59

@DancyNancy that's beautiful

Witchend · 25/02/2020 17:02
Flowers I'm so sorry xx
Biglumpycustard · 25/02/2020 17:02

So so very sorry, my thoughts are with you and all your family. xxxxx

TheTrollFairy · 25/02/2020 17:03

My heart breaks for you! No mother should have to go through this and I wish desperately that you weren’t having to deal with this. We live in a cruel world at times.

Sending you and your family so much love. Try to be kind to yourself and take all the time you need ❤️❤️

GracieLouFreebushh · 25/02/2020 17:05

I am so so sorry for your loss Thanks

PiggyPlumPie · 25/02/2020 17:06

I am so very very sorry for your loss, those words seem inadequate. Much love to you all xxx

millymoo1202 · 25/02/2020 17:07

I’m so sorry to read this, I’ve been thinking of you today. ❤️

WitchDancer · 25/02/2020 17:07

I'm sorry to hear he has passed, may he rest in peace. I'll light a candle for him tomorrow in church, and will be thinking of you all.

thaegumathteth · 25/02/2020 17:07

I'm so sorry.

Littletabbyocelot · 25/02/2020 17:07

I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful boy. Sending you my love.

Annasgirl · 25/02/2020 17:09

Oh OP, I just read this thread. You are so wonderful - your darling DS sounded so special. I have a 7 year old DS and I know how awesome they can be. I am heartbroken thinking of you.

Please keep posting when you need a virtual hug, there is such a community of lovely people on here and so many who have had to live through a tragedy like you. You, your DH and all of your family are in my thoughts and prayers to-day.

It will seem surreal for a while, please mind yourself, and know you had time with an angel. It will be hard to parent your other children I am sure, but it will also give you a purpose through the fog of the coming hours, days and weeks. I hope you are surrounded by love and support IRL and remember, there will always be someone on here who can chat to you remotely.

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