To not send a wedding present thank you card

[Wanda1988]

We were married last September, no registry so we got a mix of cash, vouchers and decorative homewares. A few people gave us nothing which was fine. I ordered thank you cards with a wedding picture on them and sent them a few weeks later to everyone who gave us a present. At Christmas we saw a couple who said they had a present for us, but forgot to bring it to the wedding and forgot to bring it with them that day. We also saw them in January and no present, so I assumed nothing was actually coming. We visited their house last week and they gave us the present (a cheeseboard, not personalized or anything that had been specially ordered).
AIBU to not send a thank you note? I used up all the cards I ordered so I would have to place another order for a minimum of 20 cards, also I am a little annoyed at how many times they forgot it.

Just get them a generic Thank You card in the supermarket.

You’re annoyed at how many times they forgot, so you don’t want to send a thank you card?!

What is the problem, just send a card without your photo on

send a generic card

I’m sure a generic thank you card will suffice.

Yabu. Buy a single thank you card. No need for the personalised photo.

You need to acknowledge the gift.
It doesn't need to be a card with your picture on it - just get a generic card (thank you or blank) and send it.

Generic card

Did you open it in front of them and presumably say thank you? If so, not sure it warrants a thank you card.

As above. A generic thank you card is fine.

are you a little put out the cheeseboard wasn't personalised ??

Of course you need to send a card but a generic one is fine.

Lol

Yanbu. Wedding thank you cards are for presents given on the wedding day. Presents ages afterwards don’t count.

Maybe a text would suffice here

Just write the thank you letter on whatever writing paper or notelet you have to hand.

Why do you even need to send a card if you thanked them in person? The consensus on threads about children sending thank you letters is usually that the actual thanks are important but the medium is not.

If this is serious, why on earth would you think it’s OK not to say thankyou? And do you really think anyone even notices the difference between a specially printed card and a generic one?

Be nice. Send a card.

Just write a thank you letter. They don't need a card wifh your picture on it. Basildon Bond may be helpful.

I would not send a card. You saw them in person to receive the gift and presumably said thanks. I would maybe follow up with a text but no need to send a card.

I wouldn't bother with a card tbh. If you said thank you in person then a card is just a waste of time and not good for the environment. I just put cards straight in the recycling.

I've been in your shoes and went down the generic thank you card route. I bought a pack of 10 and ended up using a couple when we got loads more baby gifts than I thought we would.

Why send a card? Surely you thanked them when they eventually handed it over

Why would you want a personalised cheeseboard and how would it be personalised anyway?