We were married last September, no registry so we got a mix of cash, vouchers and decorative homewares. A few people gave us nothing which was fine. I ordered thank you cards with a wedding picture on them and sent them a few weeks later to everyone who gave us a present. At Christmas we saw a couple who said they had a present for us, but forgot to bring it to the wedding and forgot to bring it with them that day. We also saw them in January and no present, so I assumed nothing was actually coming. We visited their house last week and they gave us the present (a cheeseboard, not personalized or anything that had been specially ordered).
AIBU to not send a thank you note? I used up all the cards I ordered so I would have to place another order for a minimum of 20 cards, also I am a little annoyed at how many times they forgot it.