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Driving through storm Ciara to Ikea

140 replies

RickSanchez · 09/02/2020 11:26

Can you all just give my DH a sense check. He thinks this is a sensible idea. We're in Yorkshire and the wind and rain here is biblical

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AgathaVanHelsing · 09/02/2020 12:24

My DH left at 6.30am this morning for Ikea........ But he works there!

Me and the kids have been nowhere today and for good reason! It's bloody awful out there. It was bad enough having to spend 10 minutes out in the garden sorting the animals.

NameChange84 · 09/02/2020 12:24

An elderly woman near us got trapped in her car in floodwater up to the windscreen and had to get the fire brigade out to rescue her. He’s nuts.

JosefKeller · 09/02/2020 12:27

It's just a storm though, it depends where you live.

The fields around here are still just field, wet and muddy but you are hardly likely to see cows flying around. It's not a tornado.

The forest however I would stay well clear of. The seaside too obviously.

More than popping to the local shops is unnecessary, you are more likely to be left stranded somewhere with flooded roads, trees on the way and all sort of crap blocking the way. I wouldn't enjoy spending my Sunday in the car waiting for rescue, so I wouldn't go!

AutumnRose1 · 09/02/2020 12:27

I can only think people saying it’s fine don’t have the weather we’ve got here

MyFamilyAndOtherAnimals1 · 09/02/2020 12:28

There's an 80 mile hill race happening near me today...

...they are bat-shit crazy though...

KatyaZamolodchikova · 09/02/2020 12:28

I was in an Uber from Leeds to Bradford around midnight last night before it got this bad and it was pretty scary. I wouldn’t go out unless it was absolutely necessary.

emilybrontescorsett · 09/02/2020 12:29

No don't go.

Mumof1andacat · 09/02/2020 12:31

I'm planning a trip to the supermarket later and I'm happy to drive but I live down south

LionelRitchieStoleMyNotebook · 09/02/2020 12:32

We're going swimming! Windy here but not raining

twinkledag · 09/02/2020 12:32

No way! Enjoy the day indoors!

LionelRitchieStoleMyNotebook · 09/02/2020 12:32

@JosefKeller erm some of us live at the seaside....

Queenunikitty · 09/02/2020 12:33

We’re in the South East and the supermarket delivery man was just late because a falling tree clipped the back of his van, apparently they are cancelling all afternoon deliveries. Very grateful I’ve got my shopping! Poor chap, he was quite shaken.

LangClegsOpinionIsNoted · 09/02/2020 12:35

Depends how bad it is where you are. We're North Yorkshire, dh has driven to Doncaster today to go to a show with DD. It's wet and windy, it's not a hurricane and there isn't any flooding.

Quite fancy IKEA.

Meckity1 · 09/02/2020 12:35

Just had a look on the AA travel map and there is a weather warning symbol just about over IKEA

www.theaa.com/route-planner/traffic-news/leeds

I live relatively near, and while the rain seems to have eased off a little, the wind is still too enthusiastic to be sensible.

btw is it YABU to ban your husband for going or YANBU to go to IKEA?

AutumnRose1 · 09/02/2020 12:36

“ but you are hardly likely to see cows flying around. It's not a tornado.”

No. A 90 year old man was blown into traffic and died - obviously! - during the last bad storm here. Luckily my mum isn’t likely to go out today.

JosefKeller · 09/02/2020 12:38

LionelRitchieStoleMyNotebook
I am aware of that, and I am sure the majority will avoid going straight on the sea front. We of course will always see the photos in the paper of the morons who will go pushing a buggy and take selfies.

I wouldn't stay under a tree either.

MrsDoylesTeaBags · 09/02/2020 12:38

Sickofrain are you Michael Fish?

Our street is a river and the rain is horizontal, I like meatballs too, but not that much.

windymillersmill · 09/02/2020 12:41

but you are hardly likely to see cows flying around.

Obviously. Everybody knows it's pigs that fly, not cows.

AutumnRose1 · 09/02/2020 12:42

windy dammit, why didn’t I think of that 😂

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 09/02/2020 12:43

Surely depends what your weather is like locally. DH is working today... On a dry ski slope. They are open. We just went for coffee in town- fine. Theres a few fences and branches down, but we've had similar winds many times this winter already.

Other places have a lot worse weather.

OneHanded · 09/02/2020 12:45

I’m still heading out on my bike and I am what it says on the tin (one handed) and 5ft, 32kg.

Lunafortheloveogod · 09/02/2020 12:47

It’s a personal judgement call and can only be based on local conditions.. some reason here it’s pissing down at the other end of town but it’s just windy up our end. Managed a walk with chihuahuas and a buggy without any of us turning into kites, just common sense avoided the heavily wooded areas and river walks. Unless you’re a trampoline or a wheelie bin you’d be fine here.

Then again we were sent to school in knee deep snow or 90mph winds.. further north you go the more we seem to tolerate Grin. I’ve seen some of these “flooded” roads on social media n it’s just the bit next to the kerb that’s bad. If we didn’t go out when our road done that we’d get about two weeks of outside time a year Grin

Thinkingabout1t · 09/02/2020 12:47

Please don’t go, OP. You can see the weather is dangerous where you are. Don’t let DH be one of those foolish people who give the Emergency services a load of extra work and trouble by ignoring all warnings. Your instincts are right.

Drabarni · 09/02/2020 12:48

We're in GM in the NW and not going anywhere.
The wind and rain have been diabolical, rain stopped but still very windy.

windymillersmill · 09/02/2020 12:48

dammit, why didn’t I think of that 😂

Grin at AutumnRose

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