Dp and I were in town with the children. We had separated off so he could have an eye test whilst I had the children. Them we would swap so I could get a haircut. Sideline: it's my birthday. Do had just come out of a shop. There was something someone had dropped on the floor. Like a ladies scarf. He picked it up and said. "I've got you something for your birthday." I got excited as he never gets me anything for my birthday. Then he picked up the scarf off the floor and waved it at me. I told him to f off and stormed away to my haircut, very teary and feeling shit. Apparently it was 'just a joke' though he has made zero effort. Who was BU?