My kids go to the local c of e school, there aren't any local secular alternatives. I'd thought this would be fine before they started, and of course it could be worse since I suppose at least I agree with the 'Christian' values that they hope to instil.
However, previously they went to a secular school which did as much if not more to instil values of kindness, compassion, acceptance, forgiveness and did not indoctrinate them at the same time! My kids are sad that most music in their new school involves singing about Jesus (previously they sang 'we've got the whole world in our hands' etc - unashamedly secular versions of the old Christian classics, but which inspired a sense of community amongst themselves, and empowered them to express love for each other rather than singing about how lucky they are to have God's love for them... much healthier, I think!)
I think it is wrong that we send our kids to schools where the people that they should be looking up to for truth and honesty discuss bible stories as if they were historical facts. I work in the school sometimes and am absolutely dumbfounded at the time spent discussing 'miracles' from the Bible. We don't believe them in our household and so our kids at a very young age are put in a situation where they are conflicted because we are telling them that, to the best of our ability, we cannot see any evidence that God exist, although similarly we don't have any evidence that s/he doesn't, and that we know that people from different cultures have different belief systems; simultaneously at school they are told, by the adults they trust and look up to, to celebrate the 'fact' that Jesus changed water into wine. Etc etc. I think they're too young to be presented with these conflicts.
Also, children have been told that if they have no-one to turn to, they can confide their problems in God. Seriously not useful for kids who are being bullied.
Yes I can see that it will be difficult to create a secular state system with sufficient regulation of private schools etc, but I do think we should try.
Please can someone post a link or anything else that directs me towards how to take action to get this done so that I can direct my efforts usefully? I could expend a lot of energy ranting about this here otherwise!! Huge thanks in advance.
Btw - I'm not anti-religion. All cultures have their own belief systems, and many people benefit from their faiths. But children should have the right to be educated in schools without fear of indoctrination.