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To think we need more grammars

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ThatsNotMyCherry · 26/01/2020 08:13

I went to a grammar school that was and still is massively oversubscribed. I feel like given how popular it is there should be more like it because I’m sure many bright children are turned down. I believe the school has great results not necessarily because of great teaching but because pretty much everyone who attends has a strong work ethic (less disruption, parental support, competitive spirit amongst peers). For part of my education I also attended a non selective school and I found it tough because it was very uncool to work hard. If you didn’t want to be a loser who got bullied you had to be disruptive, skiving, smoking weed in lunch breaks rather than attending clubs.
I struggle to understand why there’s so much anti grammar school feeling and reluctance to develop more of these schools. Surely it gives children from working/middle class backgrounds who want to work hard the opportunity to be in an environment where they can do so without being bullied for it? Would be interested to hear thoughts on this

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Punxsutawney · 31/01/2020 11:21

Evil My Ds's grammar are not bothered about anything apart from exam results and how many go to medical school. Absolutely everything they do is for show. If you happen to be a vulnerable child or one that needs more support then you will be in trouble.

As for asking for money, yes they demand that too. Ds has SEN and mental health difficulties. Ds's grammar have made us pay for some SEN support. When I asked to pay in cash they wouldn't accept it and demanded we pay online. Our family have had such a difficult year trying to support Ds and the lack of support from school has made things so much worse.

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