Aibu..to be upset that my married best friend cancels our tomorrow shopping trip to go shag her boxing coach

[Baileys38]

Simple as that, best mate and I text daily,don't see each other often,I'm going through hell mentally at the mo awaiting a cancer diagnosis,(specialist are pretty sure, and will be getting final tests this week),and was looking forward to seeing her for a day out shopping and lunch tomorrow. Shes married by the way and said she had the opportunity to meet up for sex and would I mind?
I just feel it's a bit selfish as I have always been there for her and wanted other peoples thoughts

Best wishes for a happy result.

for you @Baileys38.

I'm sorry you have had such a terrible time with your health and your friend. One of my long term friends hasn't been there for me and I haven't been in contact for a month now.

Yes, definitely update us on how you get on.

Your friend is horrible!!

Best wishes for your result OP! Hope you’re managing ok, I’m sure the waiting is awful...

Hi all
I have come back to update you all as promised.
I got the call today finally with my results
Sadly I do have a very rare sarcoma cancer.im being seen next fri to talk about surgery and treatment.all I know is its extremely rare..I'm one of 20 in the uk and its low grade,so that's a positive. I felt I needed to update.xx

I’m so sorry, OP

I'm so sorry you're going through this and you're in my thoughts for good news.

Please leave this friendship, she sounds horrible and not trustworthy if she can do that to her husband and to dump you off at a time you need her most so she can have sex? Just selfish.

Look after yourself 💕

I'm sorry you are having to go through all this. She is a shit friend. Drop her and concentrate on yourself and the other friend. If her DH asks tell him the truth. Xxx

Op I wasn't on your thread at the beginning but felt compelled to write. I wish you a full
Recovery. Thinking of you xx I hope you have better friends in your life xx

I'm so sorry for the diagnosis, hoping as it's low-grade they can remove and cure you.

I’ve just seen this thread too. Wishing you a very speedy recovery. From one mumsnet poster to another you are in my thoughts and I’m sending you all my best wishes Xx

I'm so sorry you've had such stressful news, i cannot imagine what the last few months have been like. I am sending you bundles of love OP, you sound lovely and we are all rooting for you

Dreadful woman, on all counts. She is not the sort of friend I would want to have in my life.

Sorry to hear about the worry in your life, and all the best

As she’s married it’s prob not that straight forward to meet up with the coach for a hook up.

Is this for real ??????? I have to wonder about the world some people inhabit.

Oh Baileys - sorry your news isn't better although being low grade will hopefully mean better news in the future.

Wishing you nothing but luck

I'll be your friend if you want a replacement. I wish you all the luck in the world. My mum died at 39 of breast cancer leaving 4 kids. So I have done a bit of thinking on the subject!!

Really be strong, be healthy and cut our any negativity. Good luck.

I'm so sorry to read your update OP, you must be out of your mind with worry. I hope you've got lots of love and support around you for the fight ahead. All the best

Wishing you the very best with your treatment 💐x

Sending love and best wishes xx

Presumably she knows you’re going through this OP? And yes she is a terrible friend and a horrible wife! I’m so sorry, and I hope your test results aren’t as bad as you think. Fingers crossed for you. X